Christmas turned out very nice. The weather was pleasant and there were a lot of people visiting. We set the tablecloths out and the tree was lit and the mood was fairly festive. They served barb b cued ribs, corn on the cob, pinto beans, rolls and pecan pie (again). Since I love pecan pie I am not complaining but I wish I had known about the ribs. Wore a white blouse and then had to spend time Thursday getting the tiny little splatters off of it. I needed one of those bibs the guys wear. It was all very tasty. I stayed until around 3 and headed back. Cowboy needed a nap.
I set my alarm for 5 on Thursday and thought I would go to the mall and see what bargains I could find. When it went off I turned it off and rolled over. I decided there is nothing out there I want that bad. I did get out later in the morning on Thursday and go to Hobby Lobby and found some Christmas items for 66% off so that was good.
In the afternoon a friend called and we went bike riding for a little while. I have little lung capacity so I didn't last long but I am going to stay at it.
A long walk on Friday and a lot of time spent packing up Christmas things and trying to get the house in order.
On Saturday I went to see Cowboy. It was a beautiful day so we walked around outside for quite a while. When we cleaned out the flower beds earlier I had piled leaves in them to protect the roots. They had all been removed. I suspect one of the residents decided it was a cleaning job. After that Cowboy was tired so we went inside and I helped a couple of the wives take down the tree and stockings. Worked up a bit of a sweat but it felt good to help and get it done.
Yesterday I concentrated on the paper and working on trip planning.
Today when I woke up it was cold. brrrrrrr....... Nonetheless, I managed to fill up the car, go to the bank, go buy my tax software and take a load of things to the local food pantry/thrift store.
This afternoon the housekeeper came and did the floors and dusted everything and cleaned the bathrooms. It always feels good to get that done.
Today I booked a trip to Costa Rica in March and a trip in June for a cruise in eastern Europe. My passport came in the mail today so I felt comfortable making definite plans. Am hoping to make a road trip in the fall. Maybe I can find a compatriot or two to go. Want to see the Crystal Museum, the fall colors and some of the sights in Arkansas. Still hoping my sisters will come for a visit sometime in 2014.
Now I must turn my attention to this mess of an office, my calendar and taxes. ugh !
Monday, December 30, 2013
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
Tuesday, December 24, Christmas Eve
Last Thursday I went to the home to visit Cowboy. He was really crabby and said he didn't feel good. I have the impression he must not have slept well the night before. It was very pleasant outside so we spent some time cleaning out the flower beds and filling them with leaves to protect the roots of the perennials we had planted. We walked around as well.
I had a Doctor appointment in the afternoon so returned for that. Just the annual stuff and blood work. He asked about Cowboy, always liked him. We talked about that and he asked me how I was doing, how much I was drinking, how I was sleeping. I was able to tell him that I was doing pretty well. He suggested I limit my visits to twice weekly. I don't know if I can always do that but had already been thinking about it some. I guess he has had experience with these things but my feeling is I need to go often and just be sure all is well.
I spent Friday making cookies and fudge to take to Dallas. I also made goulash and broccoli slaw to take to the part at the home tomorrow. Still wrapping gifts and getting things organized at 7PM Friday night. I am getting too old for this. I only buy for those under 18 but it is still a bunch of kiddos. There are four grandchildren under 18 and 8 great grandchildren. Some of that was mailed but still filled up the back of my vehicle.
It was wet and cold on Saturday so had to drive in less than great conditions but all went OK. We had a really nice turnout for the party. The staff folks that were off came in and joined us and some brought their families. Lots of relatives there to visit, a fair number of people I had never seen before. It was a nice time except for this lady that brought some Kaoroke music and was singing at the top of her lungs to her Dad and she couldn't carry a tune in a bucket. After awhile I was about ready to scream and she just kept going on and on. When the food was served, she thankfully hung it up.
On to Dallas. The traffic was awful, two wrecks with traffic backed up for miles so it took an extra 2 hours to get there. Some of my youngest daughters family came over in the evening and we had pizza and visited.
On Sunday morning I went to visit Cowboy's daughter and her husband and four children. Took them to breakfast and then we went back and opened gifts and played games for a while.
Back to my Grandson's for the night and then on Monday morning I met my eldest daughter's son and had breakfast. Headed home about 11 AM and didn't get home until around 4. More awful traffic. I hope I can remember to not do this next year. I wonder if I will ever manage to get them all together at the same time. With their various schedules it doesn't look likely.
Tomorrow I will be going to spend most of the day with Cowboy. I doubt if he will understand that it is Christmas, but I never know where his mind will be. There are some wives along with me that are going to do up the tables and try to make it nice for them.
I had a Doctor appointment in the afternoon so returned for that. Just the annual stuff and blood work. He asked about Cowboy, always liked him. We talked about that and he asked me how I was doing, how much I was drinking, how I was sleeping. I was able to tell him that I was doing pretty well. He suggested I limit my visits to twice weekly. I don't know if I can always do that but had already been thinking about it some. I guess he has had experience with these things but my feeling is I need to go often and just be sure all is well.
I spent Friday making cookies and fudge to take to Dallas. I also made goulash and broccoli slaw to take to the part at the home tomorrow. Still wrapping gifts and getting things organized at 7PM Friday night. I am getting too old for this. I only buy for those under 18 but it is still a bunch of kiddos. There are four grandchildren under 18 and 8 great grandchildren. Some of that was mailed but still filled up the back of my vehicle.
It was wet and cold on Saturday so had to drive in less than great conditions but all went OK. We had a really nice turnout for the party. The staff folks that were off came in and joined us and some brought their families. Lots of relatives there to visit, a fair number of people I had never seen before. It was a nice time except for this lady that brought some Kaoroke music and was singing at the top of her lungs to her Dad and she couldn't carry a tune in a bucket. After awhile I was about ready to scream and she just kept going on and on. When the food was served, she thankfully hung it up.
On to Dallas. The traffic was awful, two wrecks with traffic backed up for miles so it took an extra 2 hours to get there. Some of my youngest daughters family came over in the evening and we had pizza and visited.
On Sunday morning I went to visit Cowboy's daughter and her husband and four children. Took them to breakfast and then we went back and opened gifts and played games for a while.
Back to my Grandson's for the night and then on Monday morning I met my eldest daughter's son and had breakfast. Headed home about 11 AM and didn't get home until around 4. More awful traffic. I hope I can remember to not do this next year. I wonder if I will ever manage to get them all together at the same time. With their various schedules it doesn't look likely.
Tomorrow I will be going to spend most of the day with Cowboy. I doubt if he will understand that it is Christmas, but I never know where his mind will be. There are some wives along with me that are going to do up the tables and try to make it nice for them.
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Wednesday, December 18
Monday the band got together and practiced for our last Christmas gig and then sat down and had vegetarian chili compliments of our accordion player who hosted the event, cornbread complements of me, apple cake and some Trader Joe's wine. It was great. The band members invited their spouses to participate and we had a very nice time.
Tuesday I went to see Cowboy. He was doing fine. We walked around outside, a nice day, and spent some time talking to other residents. I wasn't able to stay for lunch, had a doctors appointment but a nice visit.
Today I attended a neighborhood ladies coffee at 10. The hostess had her house decked out more than you can even imagine. She has so many beautiful things and transforms her house into this Christmas wonderland. The food was great too. There was lots of ladies there and I love visiting and interacting with all of them. Won't see most of them until next year.
I went and mailed my passport application, went to WalMart and picked up the rest of the things I needed to cook for Saturday, make goodies for the weekend and cards to send to the grandchildren and great-grandchildren that required their gifts to be mailed. Then at 2:30 the band played our last Christmas gig at a nursing home for Alzheimers patients. They really enjoyed themselves and I came away feeling good.
I have been researching trips to go on in 2014 but haven't booked anything yet. Need to try to do that over the holiday as well.
I am busily trying to get gifts wrapped and everything ready to go visit the kids over the weekend. Made some good progress today.
Will go see Cowboy tomorrow and then have another Dr's appt at 4. The end of the year seems to mean it is time to do all of this. May try to change this around so everything doesn't come up at once.
I hope to spend Friday cooking for the party Saturday at the home and making cookies and fudge for my offspring and my offsprings' offspring. It is interesting how they just expect to have my sugar cookies and my fudge to round out their holiday eating. I rather like the role but it is work.
Tuesday I went to see Cowboy. He was doing fine. We walked around outside, a nice day, and spent some time talking to other residents. I wasn't able to stay for lunch, had a doctors appointment but a nice visit.
Today I attended a neighborhood ladies coffee at 10. The hostess had her house decked out more than you can even imagine. She has so many beautiful things and transforms her house into this Christmas wonderland. The food was great too. There was lots of ladies there and I love visiting and interacting with all of them. Won't see most of them until next year.
I went and mailed my passport application, went to WalMart and picked up the rest of the things I needed to cook for Saturday, make goodies for the weekend and cards to send to the grandchildren and great-grandchildren that required their gifts to be mailed. Then at 2:30 the band played our last Christmas gig at a nursing home for Alzheimers patients. They really enjoyed themselves and I came away feeling good.
I have been researching trips to go on in 2014 but haven't booked anything yet. Need to try to do that over the holiday as well.
I am busily trying to get gifts wrapped and everything ready to go visit the kids over the weekend. Made some good progress today.
Will go see Cowboy tomorrow and then have another Dr's appt at 4. The end of the year seems to mean it is time to do all of this. May try to change this around so everything doesn't come up at once.
I hope to spend Friday cooking for the party Saturday at the home and making cookies and fudge for my offspring and my offsprings' offspring. It is interesting how they just expect to have my sugar cookies and my fudge to round out their holiday eating. I rather like the role but it is work.
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Sunday, December 15
Went to see Cowboy this morning. He was in a chipper mood. and very talkative. It felt like someone had given him an "upper".
We watched some TV and then walked around inside. Too cold to go out. The nurses station had one of those stuffed Santas that sings and dances. Dancing may be the wrong word, he moves his hips back and forth. Cowboy started moving his hips around and had the nurse on duty in stitches. We walked some more and he could hear the music and started trying to do the two step with his walker. Was doing pretty well at moving in time with the music. I was worried he might fall but let him have at it. He seemed very cheerful.
I found out this week they have started giving him insulin on a regular basis. 5 units before breakfast and 5 units before lunch. His sugar is going up quite a bit. I am OK with it but they are supposed to call me and let me know anytime his medicine changes. Will have to mention that next time I meet with staff.
The home looks very festive. There are trees and stockings hung and other decor hung on the walls. I am glad they try to make it homey. Not sure how much the guys notice.
Another busy week coming up but then things will start getting back to normal. Two more lunches and a coffee and 2 more gigs, then a break. My arm and hands need it bad.
I am behind on everything related to the holiday. No cards done yet, nothing wrapped. I really have to get it together. Am hoping to go to Dallas next weekend and see the kids and take their Christmas to them.
Plan to spend Christmas day with hubby. Some of the other wives will be there and we are going to decorate the tables and try to make it nice for the fellows.
We watched some TV and then walked around inside. Too cold to go out. The nurses station had one of those stuffed Santas that sings and dances. Dancing may be the wrong word, he moves his hips back and forth. Cowboy started moving his hips around and had the nurse on duty in stitches. We walked some more and he could hear the music and started trying to do the two step with his walker. Was doing pretty well at moving in time with the music. I was worried he might fall but let him have at it. He seemed very cheerful.
I found out this week they have started giving him insulin on a regular basis. 5 units before breakfast and 5 units before lunch. His sugar is going up quite a bit. I am OK with it but they are supposed to call me and let me know anytime his medicine changes. Will have to mention that next time I meet with staff.
The home looks very festive. There are trees and stockings hung and other decor hung on the walls. I am glad they try to make it homey. Not sure how much the guys notice.
Another busy week coming up but then things will start getting back to normal. Two more lunches and a coffee and 2 more gigs, then a break. My arm and hands need it bad.
I am behind on everything related to the holiday. No cards done yet, nothing wrapped. I really have to get it together. Am hoping to go to Dallas next weekend and see the kids and take their Christmas to them.
Plan to spend Christmas day with hubby. Some of the other wives will be there and we are going to decorate the tables and try to make it nice for the fellows.
Friday, December 13, 2013
Friday, December 13
I wonder if we "make big" over the holiday season just to keep from getting the mid-winter blues. Seems like there is too much going on.
Last Sunday night I played with a keyboardist at the Christmas party for the neighborhood. I have to admit it was a great party. Good food, over 100 people and I had a good amount of wine. Everyone seemed to enjoy the musical presentation. It was mostly put together by the keyboardist who is a former music teacher and very talented at this sort of thing. We did a special Texas version of the 12 Days of Christmas and the audience loved it.
Monday we went to the home and played the same program for the men in the memory unit. We passed out little bags of goodies and tried to give them all a hug. It went very well. We stayed and had lunch with Cowboy and then headed on home.
On Tuesday I played at the local senior center with the dulcimer group. There were more in our group than those present. I am sure that was because it was downright cold outside. But they enjoyed themselves and we did too.
After we were done I went to the Souper Salad to get a plate of vegetables. You never get enough when you live alone and I try to do this every now and then. I was going in and I tripped over a stupid cement barrier that they use to keep the cars from barreling into the buildings (I guess). Got a skinned knee and came away a little sore but no real harm done. Call me lucky. I sure felt stupid though.
Wednesday I went to lunch with some close neighbors who are good friends and we went to a local eatery that was really good, then we hit some new stores in the area. I ended up buying a Santa and two trees as a replacement for the regular tree. I just can't handle setting up a big tree anymore but I really like my new Santa. He is about 3 feet tall and the two trees are about 4 foot tall. Who says you have to have a tree anyway?
Thursday I went to the home to see Cowboy. He was feeling pretty chipper but it was too cold to go out so we mostly stayed in his room and visited and watched TV. I talked with some of the wives for a bit. We are planning on decorating the tables a bit for Christmas and trying to make things festive. I am chipping in, as well as several other wives. We are kind of becoming a "club" all our own as we try to support each other through this trying time.
Today I slept in, much needed. Then I got up and got dressed up and went to lunch with the neighborhood ladies to a "brewhouse" called TJ's. It was very good and we had a good time. Then I headed down to Barnes and Noble to pick up some gifts for the grandchildren. The traffic was awful and when I started home there was a wreck in front of us on the interstate and it took forever to get home. ...and it was raining ! Why do we humans torture ourselves this way?
Have dulcimer practice in the morning and then hope to get some cards done and make a shopping list for my cooking. The kiddos like my fudge and sugar cookies so I always try to do that.
Last Sunday night I played with a keyboardist at the Christmas party for the neighborhood. I have to admit it was a great party. Good food, over 100 people and I had a good amount of wine. Everyone seemed to enjoy the musical presentation. It was mostly put together by the keyboardist who is a former music teacher and very talented at this sort of thing. We did a special Texas version of the 12 Days of Christmas and the audience loved it.
Monday we went to the home and played the same program for the men in the memory unit. We passed out little bags of goodies and tried to give them all a hug. It went very well. We stayed and had lunch with Cowboy and then headed on home.
On Tuesday I played at the local senior center with the dulcimer group. There were more in our group than those present. I am sure that was because it was downright cold outside. But they enjoyed themselves and we did too.
After we were done I went to the Souper Salad to get a plate of vegetables. You never get enough when you live alone and I try to do this every now and then. I was going in and I tripped over a stupid cement barrier that they use to keep the cars from barreling into the buildings (I guess). Got a skinned knee and came away a little sore but no real harm done. Call me lucky. I sure felt stupid though.
Wednesday I went to lunch with some close neighbors who are good friends and we went to a local eatery that was really good, then we hit some new stores in the area. I ended up buying a Santa and two trees as a replacement for the regular tree. I just can't handle setting up a big tree anymore but I really like my new Santa. He is about 3 feet tall and the two trees are about 4 foot tall. Who says you have to have a tree anyway?
Thursday I went to the home to see Cowboy. He was feeling pretty chipper but it was too cold to go out so we mostly stayed in his room and visited and watched TV. I talked with some of the wives for a bit. We are planning on decorating the tables a bit for Christmas and trying to make things festive. I am chipping in, as well as several other wives. We are kind of becoming a "club" all our own as we try to support each other through this trying time.
Today I slept in, much needed. Then I got up and got dressed up and went to lunch with the neighborhood ladies to a "brewhouse" called TJ's. It was very good and we had a good time. Then I headed down to Barnes and Noble to pick up some gifts for the grandchildren. The traffic was awful and when I started home there was a wreck in front of us on the interstate and it took forever to get home. ...and it was raining ! Why do we humans torture ourselves this way?
Have dulcimer practice in the morning and then hope to get some cards done and make a shopping list for my cooking. The kiddos like my fudge and sugar cookies so I always try to do that.
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Sunday, December 8
There are opposing theories about the best way to deal with the emotional toll when one has a loved one with dementia. It was discussed at our support group and the recommendation of finding peace and spending time meditating was suggested. I couldn't quite agree because my way of dealing with just about everything is to stay really busy. It seems to keep away brooding and feeling sorry for myself.
I may be approaching this the wrong way. Admittedly I bit off way too much for the holiday season and find myself feeling overworked and physically challenged. But I have always felt that keeping really busy was a good thing.
But I never been faced with "anticipatory grief" before and perhaps it is a different kind of emotional landscape that requires a different approach. Not sure, am thinking on it. I have decided to try something else. It is developing in my brain right now and I am not sure exactly what my days should look like but I know for sure they are not going to look like they do right now. More to follow.
I went to see Cowboy on Thursday because bad weather was predicted as coming in on Friday. It was late in the day and I didn't stay too long but we had a nice visit. Too cold to go out but we sat in the common room and talked to people part of the time.
On Friday, it was really cold and wet out but I got up and went and got a haircut at 8:30AM and then played a gig with the band at a adult day care at 10:30. We were supposed to play with the dulcimer group Friday night at the museum but it was cancelled due to the weather.
Yesterday I went to dulcimer practice and then spent the rest of the day at home.
This morning I made peanut butter cookies to take to the home tomorrow. I have prepared little gift bags. They have chocolate kisses, a candy cane and some lotion. A friend is bringing more cookies. Just about have it all ready to go.
I am going to have to get ready for our neighborhood party in a few minutes. I will be helping with the decor and setting up to play after our dinner. It should be fun but my back hurts from all this chasing around and loading and unloading my gear. I see pain meds coming up momentarily.
I may be approaching this the wrong way. Admittedly I bit off way too much for the holiday season and find myself feeling overworked and physically challenged. But I have always felt that keeping really busy was a good thing.
But I never been faced with "anticipatory grief" before and perhaps it is a different kind of emotional landscape that requires a different approach. Not sure, am thinking on it. I have decided to try something else. It is developing in my brain right now and I am not sure exactly what my days should look like but I know for sure they are not going to look like they do right now. More to follow.
I went to see Cowboy on Thursday because bad weather was predicted as coming in on Friday. It was late in the day and I didn't stay too long but we had a nice visit. Too cold to go out but we sat in the common room and talked to people part of the time.
On Friday, it was really cold and wet out but I got up and went and got a haircut at 8:30AM and then played a gig with the band at a adult day care at 10:30. We were supposed to play with the dulcimer group Friday night at the museum but it was cancelled due to the weather.
Yesterday I went to dulcimer practice and then spent the rest of the day at home.
This morning I made peanut butter cookies to take to the home tomorrow. I have prepared little gift bags. They have chocolate kisses, a candy cane and some lotion. A friend is bringing more cookies. Just about have it all ready to go.
I am going to have to get ready for our neighborhood party in a few minutes. I will be helping with the decor and setting up to play after our dinner. It should be fun but my back hurts from all this chasing around and loading and unloading my gear. I see pain meds coming up momentarily.
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
Wednesday, December 4
I have been "chasing my tail" for the last few days. Two different practices on Saturday, went to see Cowboy on Sunday then another practice Monday afternoon. My brain is crazed. Took the wrong music to my practice on Monday. That's what happens when you are playing three different sets of music with three different groups.
Cowboy was doing well yesterday. I went to the base to pick up my glasses that were ordered and picked up a few things at the PX and then headed over to see Cowboy. Got there in time for lunch. It was a beautiful day. The coleus has bit the dust but the other flowers are still going. It is supposed to freeze on Friday so that will probably do everything in.
Had another practice last night. This is all way too much. Not doing it next year.
This morning I went and picked up the forms to apply for a passport, bought stamps for my Christmas cards, returned a blouse I bought the other day because it had a hole in it, dropped off a box of books was donating to the library and then went and got a manicure and pedicure. Am going to be on display this next few days so thought I better tidy myself up. Have a haircut appointment early Friday AM. Does all of this mean I am "high maintenance". Lordy I hope not, I hate that idea.
I am thinking will go see Cowboy tomorrow after we play because the weather is supposed to turn bad the next day. They are talking sleet, etc.
Cowboy was doing well yesterday. I went to the base to pick up my glasses that were ordered and picked up a few things at the PX and then headed over to see Cowboy. Got there in time for lunch. It was a beautiful day. The coleus has bit the dust but the other flowers are still going. It is supposed to freeze on Friday so that will probably do everything in.
Had another practice last night. This is all way too much. Not doing it next year.
This morning I went and picked up the forms to apply for a passport, bought stamps for my Christmas cards, returned a blouse I bought the other day because it had a hole in it, dropped off a box of books was donating to the library and then went and got a manicure and pedicure. Am going to be on display this next few days so thought I better tidy myself up. Have a haircut appointment early Friday AM. Does all of this mean I am "high maintenance". Lordy I hope not, I hate that idea.
I am thinking will go see Cowboy tomorrow after we play because the weather is supposed to turn bad the next day. They are talking sleet, etc.
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Thursday, November 28, Thanksgiving
I went to the home this morning and the traffic was terrible. It took two hours to get there. Lots of visitors today and a fair number of little ones running about. We had a nice meal. Turkey and all the trimmings. I had a piece of pecan pie. Cowboy was in a pretty good humor. We called his daughters and got to talk to the older one. Left a message for the other. She has a 12 year old and 9 year old triplets so is one busy lady.
The residents were served by a group called the "Combat Veterans Association". Lots of young men were delivering the trays and helping those that needed help eat their meal. Some seemed uncomfortable and not sure how to do it but it was heartwarming to see their efforts. Their wives and children were there with them, all with vests or shirts on identifying their organization. Can't say I was familiar with this group but I felt it was really special that they took the time on Thanksgiving to join us and show their appreciation in this way.
They had an area set up with pretty table decorations for the guests and family members and were serving on the buffet line. It was a nice day. I came home about 4 and have been doing little but watching a little TV. Do feel a little tired.
Since it is Thanksgiving thought I would tell you some of the thoughts in my mind
I am grateful that I am healthy I am grateful that I have a comfortable home, a good car, and enough resources to live comfortably. I am grateful for my family and my friends that are so supportive. I am especially grateful that Cowboy is content, comfortable, well fed, well cared for and not in pain. I am grateful for the wonderful staff at the VA home and their positive, cheerful attitudes.
Several years ago I was managing a group of young people who tended to complain a lot about nothing.. Thanksgiving rolled around and I sent out an email reminding them that we live in the most wonderful country on the earth. They enjoyed a better standard of living, better medical care and more opportunities than 90 percent of the population on this globe. I reminded them that they never had to go to bed hungry. If they had someone to love and someone to love them and could get out of bed in the morning, they were blessed. I believed it then and I believe it now. Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
The residents were served by a group called the "Combat Veterans Association". Lots of young men were delivering the trays and helping those that needed help eat their meal. Some seemed uncomfortable and not sure how to do it but it was heartwarming to see their efforts. Their wives and children were there with them, all with vests or shirts on identifying their organization. Can't say I was familiar with this group but I felt it was really special that they took the time on Thanksgiving to join us and show their appreciation in this way.
They had an area set up with pretty table decorations for the guests and family members and were serving on the buffet line. It was a nice day. I came home about 4 and have been doing little but watching a little TV. Do feel a little tired.
Since it is Thanksgiving thought I would tell you some of the thoughts in my mind
I am grateful that I am healthy I am grateful that I have a comfortable home, a good car, and enough resources to live comfortably. I am grateful for my family and my friends that are so supportive. I am especially grateful that Cowboy is content, comfortable, well fed, well cared for and not in pain. I am grateful for the wonderful staff at the VA home and their positive, cheerful attitudes.
Several years ago I was managing a group of young people who tended to complain a lot about nothing.. Thanksgiving rolled around and I sent out an email reminding them that we live in the most wonderful country on the earth. They enjoyed a better standard of living, better medical care and more opportunities than 90 percent of the population on this globe. I reminded them that they never had to go to bed hungry. If they had someone to love and someone to love them and could get out of bed in the morning, they were blessed. I believed it then and I believe it now. Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Wednesday, November 27
I did something yesterday I had not done in a while. I just got up and left the house and spent the day wandering around some stores and doing a bit of shopping. There were lots of people out, I guess beating the Black Friday rush. Lots of kids running around everywhere. While I was at the mall I stopped for a slice of pizza. At the table to my left was a little girl about 11 or 12. Then another girl joined her and they were talking in sign language. Pretty soon the Mom sat down and she was signing too. Then the Dad arrived and all four of them were signing. Impossible to tell if one or more of them was deaf but they were really going after it.
At the table to my right there was a grandmother with three kids and she was yelling at them. Quite an interesting dynamic. (the pizza was good).
I enjoy the decorations, the people watching and the music and got in a good bit of walking at the mall.
There were plenty of bargains to be had and I came home with a couple of new blouses and two cocoa cups in my china pattern. They are really cool, with little spoons.
Last night a friend called and I went with her and her husband to see "Last Vegas". Really cute movie, a bit risque to be called PG but funny. I didn't eat but one piece of chicken for dinner and then treated myself to popcorn.
I had contacted the handyman on Tuesday and he came after work and got my Christmas down and moved the hoses into the garage. I think I got that done just in time, is supposed to freeze solid tonight.
After getting a few groceries this morning (remind me never to go to the supermarket again the day before Thanksgiving) I spent the rest of the day unpacking Christmas things, doing laundry and watching TV. I listened to several Christmas CD's and put some aside to take over to the home tomorrow.
I will be heading over to the home in the morning and spending most of the day.
At the table to my right there was a grandmother with three kids and she was yelling at them. Quite an interesting dynamic. (the pizza was good).
I enjoy the decorations, the people watching and the music and got in a good bit of walking at the mall.
There were plenty of bargains to be had and I came home with a couple of new blouses and two cocoa cups in my china pattern. They are really cool, with little spoons.
Last night a friend called and I went with her and her husband to see "Last Vegas". Really cute movie, a bit risque to be called PG but funny. I didn't eat but one piece of chicken for dinner and then treated myself to popcorn.
I had contacted the handyman on Tuesday and he came after work and got my Christmas down and moved the hoses into the garage. I think I got that done just in time, is supposed to freeze solid tonight.
After getting a few groceries this morning (remind me never to go to the supermarket again the day before Thanksgiving) I spent the rest of the day unpacking Christmas things, doing laundry and watching TV. I listened to several Christmas CD's and put some aside to take over to the home tomorrow.
I will be heading over to the home in the morning and spending most of the day.
Monday, November 25, 2013
Monday, November 25
The employee who was going to help me Friday chose not to come because they were calling for a possible freeze. Said would come Saturday AM early but then he overslept so still have a list of things to get help with. I think he figured out it wasn't fun to drive 40 miles just to make a few bucks. He has turned out to be about as dependable as a fellow I used to hire. Good intentions but little follow through. I have a good handyman that I have used a lot and I will just call him.
I need to get the Christmas down from the attic. Our neighborhood puts lights on the trees in our front yards and have matching mailbox covers and wreaths. It makes the neighborhood look really nice. I am not going to do much inside this year. Don't have any social activities planned at my house and no one is coming here. I will be going to Dallas for a few days Christmas week.
I also need to get the hoses stowed in the garage. I think the rain and cold will probably do the geraniums in but I still want to put them in the garage too.
I went to Dallas Saturday and took the piano to my daughters house. Her sons unloaded it without any difficulty. Then we went to my grandsons house and I played with the new baby. Later we went out to eat. They were talking about what was going to be on the table for Thanksgiving and what my daughter was bringing and discussing how to make a dynamite apple pie. Have to admit I felt a little sad that I won't be there but I need to be with Cowboy and not leave him alone. Great visit.
Came home yesterday a bit tired but happy to have spent time with family.
It is cold, wet and near freezing today and am staying in and working through some piles. I always seem to have plenty of piles.
If the weather is not too bad tomorrow I am going to get out and do some shopping.
I stopped by to see Cowboy on my way home yesterday. He was doing fine and the aides reported that he ate a good lunch. He is unhappy that the weather is too bad to go outside. We ended up watching "Shrek" on TV. He was really paying attention and seemed to be enjoying it. With a freeze expected I didn't stay too long.
They tell me the home really does Thanksgiving up nice and I am looking forward to having dinner with Cowboy.
I need to get the Christmas down from the attic. Our neighborhood puts lights on the trees in our front yards and have matching mailbox covers and wreaths. It makes the neighborhood look really nice. I am not going to do much inside this year. Don't have any social activities planned at my house and no one is coming here. I will be going to Dallas for a few days Christmas week.
I also need to get the hoses stowed in the garage. I think the rain and cold will probably do the geraniums in but I still want to put them in the garage too.
I went to Dallas Saturday and took the piano to my daughters house. Her sons unloaded it without any difficulty. Then we went to my grandsons house and I played with the new baby. Later we went out to eat. They were talking about what was going to be on the table for Thanksgiving and what my daughter was bringing and discussing how to make a dynamite apple pie. Have to admit I felt a little sad that I won't be there but I need to be with Cowboy and not leave him alone. Great visit.
Came home yesterday a bit tired but happy to have spent time with family.
It is cold, wet and near freezing today and am staying in and working through some piles. I always seem to have plenty of piles.
If the weather is not too bad tomorrow I am going to get out and do some shopping.
I stopped by to see Cowboy on my way home yesterday. He was doing fine and the aides reported that he ate a good lunch. He is unhappy that the weather is too bad to go outside. We ended up watching "Shrek" on TV. He was really paying attention and seemed to be enjoying it. With a freeze expected I didn't stay too long.
They tell me the home really does Thanksgiving up nice and I am looking forward to having dinner with Cowboy.
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
Wednesday, November 20
Saturday had dulcimer practice and then spent the rest of the day cleaning up after the handyman. He came Saturday morning and installed the water softener, the microwave and some electrical outlets for me in the closet.
Sunday morning I spent with tea and the paper and then went to see Cowboy in the PM. We spent most of the time outside. He walked quite a bit and then he wanted to clean out the flower beds. Every leaf had to be removed from around the flowers and every leaf on the sidewalk had to go. Mostly he instructed me what to do. It was a nice peaceful afternoon. His cold is better but he continues to cough a bit. It has to be allergy.
I went to see Cowboy again yesterday in the afternoon and we repeated Sunday's routine. Nice day. He is shuffling a lot when he walks but keeps going which is good. I continually worry he will fall down.
Went to support group at 5. Only myself and two other ladies last night. There are some who just don't want to stay after dark and drive. They really need to change the time. No meeting in December and then they will try to change the time come January.
A friend and employee from the home followed me home and helped me move some furniture and load the electronic piano into my car. I am taking it to the grandkids in Dallas. Between the two of us we managed to get it in the car. He also put the salt in the new water softener. He is going to come back Friday eve and help me get the Christmas down from the attic, box up some books and other stuff I can't manage on my own. He is a sweetie, although a bit different. Has school age children and needs money. Seems he is going to fix Thanksgiving dinner for his kids although has never done it before. I gave him lots of instructions. Will be interesting to see how that goes.
I am going to stay home today and work on setting up my new dressing area. We moved Cowboy's clothes to the guest bedroom. I don't know what to do with all his things but am not going to deal with it right now. There are hats and boots and stuff that some of the kids might want eventually but I don't think any of them can wear his things and only one likes western things. I will just worry about it later.
Tomorrow I have a couple of meetings to go to and need to copy some music so will be busy with that. Will go back to see Cowboy on Friday and leave for Dallas on Saturday and come back Sunday or Monday AM.
I have decided to renew my passport and book a trip or two for next year. I am not getting any younger and really want to do a few things. Of course, I have to be prepared to change my plans at any time.
Sunday morning I spent with tea and the paper and then went to see Cowboy in the PM. We spent most of the time outside. He walked quite a bit and then he wanted to clean out the flower beds. Every leaf had to be removed from around the flowers and every leaf on the sidewalk had to go. Mostly he instructed me what to do. It was a nice peaceful afternoon. His cold is better but he continues to cough a bit. It has to be allergy.
I went to see Cowboy again yesterday in the afternoon and we repeated Sunday's routine. Nice day. He is shuffling a lot when he walks but keeps going which is good. I continually worry he will fall down.
Went to support group at 5. Only myself and two other ladies last night. There are some who just don't want to stay after dark and drive. They really need to change the time. No meeting in December and then they will try to change the time come January.
A friend and employee from the home followed me home and helped me move some furniture and load the electronic piano into my car. I am taking it to the grandkids in Dallas. Between the two of us we managed to get it in the car. He also put the salt in the new water softener. He is going to come back Friday eve and help me get the Christmas down from the attic, box up some books and other stuff I can't manage on my own. He is a sweetie, although a bit different. Has school age children and needs money. Seems he is going to fix Thanksgiving dinner for his kids although has never done it before. I gave him lots of instructions. Will be interesting to see how that goes.
I am going to stay home today and work on setting up my new dressing area. We moved Cowboy's clothes to the guest bedroom. I don't know what to do with all his things but am not going to deal with it right now. There are hats and boots and stuff that some of the kids might want eventually but I don't think any of them can wear his things and only one likes western things. I will just worry about it later.
Tomorrow I have a couple of meetings to go to and need to copy some music so will be busy with that. Will go back to see Cowboy on Friday and leave for Dallas on Saturday and come back Sunday or Monday AM.
I have decided to renew my passport and book a trip or two for next year. I am not getting any younger and really want to do a few things. Of course, I have to be prepared to change my plans at any time.
Friday, November 15, 2013
Friday, November 15
Yesterday was heavenly. I slept in, went and got a massage, came back and had lunch, went for a haircut and then for a mani-pedi. I feel like I am livin' uptown.
This morning I went to the neighborhood ladies breakfast. It was my lunch too because then had to pick up two band members and head to the VA home for our gig.
It went really well. We played over an hour, the motorcycle club brought in beer and snacks and really seemed to enjoy themselves. Cowboy was brought over (we played for the general population wing) and sat and listened and smiled. He got up to leave and I lost my place and messed up "Danny Boy" but no biggy. He headed for the mens room but I didn't know that. Afterwards I found out he soiled his clothes. I took him back to the memory unit and asked them to clean him up.
While there I talked to the nurse. She said this morning he was trying to get out of the unit. Kept trying the door. When she asked him what he was doing he told her he needed to out and check on the tarps on the trucks that were being loaded. Some kind of reference to his army days. They were able to distract him and everything was OK.
I was talking to the girls coming home. One of them used to be a nurse at the VA. We were on the subject of agent orange. I am fairly convinced that Cowboy's problems are all related to that. He comes from a family with members that live into their 100's, has always been very concientious with his health, exercise, diet, etc. It makes one a little sick sometimes.
Came home tired and plan to do little if anything this evening.
Tomorrow a handyman is coming to install the water softener and the microwave and do some wiring for me. Am going to use Cowboy's old closet for a room to do makeup, etc. and some linen storage. There is no linen closet in the master bath. go figure......
Will go see Cowboy again on Sunday/
This morning I went to the neighborhood ladies breakfast. It was my lunch too because then had to pick up two band members and head to the VA home for our gig.
It went really well. We played over an hour, the motorcycle club brought in beer and snacks and really seemed to enjoy themselves. Cowboy was brought over (we played for the general population wing) and sat and listened and smiled. He got up to leave and I lost my place and messed up "Danny Boy" but no biggy. He headed for the mens room but I didn't know that. Afterwards I found out he soiled his clothes. I took him back to the memory unit and asked them to clean him up.
While there I talked to the nurse. She said this morning he was trying to get out of the unit. Kept trying the door. When she asked him what he was doing he told her he needed to out and check on the tarps on the trucks that were being loaded. Some kind of reference to his army days. They were able to distract him and everything was OK.
I was talking to the girls coming home. One of them used to be a nurse at the VA. We were on the subject of agent orange. I am fairly convinced that Cowboy's problems are all related to that. He comes from a family with members that live into their 100's, has always been very concientious with his health, exercise, diet, etc. It makes one a little sick sometimes.
Came home tired and plan to do little if anything this evening.
Tomorrow a handyman is coming to install the water softener and the microwave and do some wiring for me. Am going to use Cowboy's old closet for a room to do makeup, etc. and some linen storage. There is no linen closet in the master bath. go figure......
Will go see Cowboy again on Sunday/
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Wednesday, November 13
Monday I went to the social committee meeting. A pianist and I are going to do some Christmas music. We have it all lined out and when she returns from a cruise we are going to practice. We are having the party catered. I don't believe I have ever attended a couples Christmas party by myself but will be among friends and have a place on the program so won't have time to worry about it much.
In the PM the band rehearsed. We are playing at the Va home on Friday and are ready to go. One of our members is doing a very poor job of being prepared and took a call today during practice and talked for the longest about another gig with another band. We were all a little miffed. Thinking things may be fixing to change, again. I am ready for a break so is OK by me.
Yesterday I went to the home. I went rather early because I had to come back for a meeting at 1PM. Cowboy was napping but I got him up and we walked around inside for about 20 minutes or so. It is too cold to go outside. Then the activities aide set up bowling and we did that for a while. Cowboy really enjoys it and is always ready for his turn. I helped the other residents as well. They just are so sweet and are like little children in their enjoyment of this simple game.
Emergency Management sub-committee meeting in the PM. Made my report and took the minutes for a friend. I am going to cut back on my involvement with this committee once we have finished our current project. Really, (really).
Today I had to go to the dentist and have a crown replaced that fell out on Saturday. That took about an hour. At least they were able to re-cement it rather than having to replace it. A lot less money.
Came back and met the housekeepers to get the floors and bathrooms cleaned. Feels good to have that done. Also managed to catch up on laundry today.
I went and bought a new microwave. Now I just have to figure out how to get it out of my car. The handyman who is coming to put in the water softener on Saturdayand can do this as well.
Talked to a sweet neighbor this afternoon and they are heading to West VA Friday. His younger brother is ill. He seemed really upset. He is the nice neighbor that does so many things for me (like killing bats).
Tomorrow I am going to take a pamper day. I need it really bad. Have scheduled a massage, a haircut and a mani-pedi. Yea !. Now am hoping nothing comes up.
On Friday will head to the home to perform.
I am hoping to get up to see my family soon. Maybe this following weekend. Need some more baby time. Maybe I can figure out a way to get the electronic piano in my car and take it to my daughters. She wants it for the grandchildren when they visit her. Now that I have the keyboard I am set without it and it is very out of date. Uses floppy disks, no less.
In the PM the band rehearsed. We are playing at the Va home on Friday and are ready to go. One of our members is doing a very poor job of being prepared and took a call today during practice and talked for the longest about another gig with another band. We were all a little miffed. Thinking things may be fixing to change, again. I am ready for a break so is OK by me.
Yesterday I went to the home. I went rather early because I had to come back for a meeting at 1PM. Cowboy was napping but I got him up and we walked around inside for about 20 minutes or so. It is too cold to go outside. Then the activities aide set up bowling and we did that for a while. Cowboy really enjoys it and is always ready for his turn. I helped the other residents as well. They just are so sweet and are like little children in their enjoyment of this simple game.
Emergency Management sub-committee meeting in the PM. Made my report and took the minutes for a friend. I am going to cut back on my involvement with this committee once we have finished our current project. Really, (really).
Today I had to go to the dentist and have a crown replaced that fell out on Saturday. That took about an hour. At least they were able to re-cement it rather than having to replace it. A lot less money.
Came back and met the housekeepers to get the floors and bathrooms cleaned. Feels good to have that done. Also managed to catch up on laundry today.
I went and bought a new microwave. Now I just have to figure out how to get it out of my car. The handyman who is coming to put in the water softener on Saturdayand can do this as well.
Talked to a sweet neighbor this afternoon and they are heading to West VA Friday. His younger brother is ill. He seemed really upset. He is the nice neighbor that does so many things for me (like killing bats).
Tomorrow I am going to take a pamper day. I need it really bad. Have scheduled a massage, a haircut and a mani-pedi. Yea !. Now am hoping nothing comes up.
On Friday will head to the home to perform.
I am hoping to get up to see my family soon. Maybe this following weekend. Need some more baby time. Maybe I can figure out a way to get the electronic piano in my car and take it to my daughters. She wants it for the grandchildren when they visit her. Now that I have the keyboard I am set without it and it is very out of date. Uses floppy disks, no less.
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Sunday, November 10
I went to see Cowboy this morning. He was in bed napping when I got there at 10 AM. Still coughing and stuffy. We went outside, it was about 70 degrees and the sun was starting to show through the clouds. Very nice out. He started asking what time it was right after I got there and kept asking every few minutes. He said he was hungry and ready for lunch. Maybe he didn't do well with breakfast or maybe his imagination is working. Not sure.
He wanted to know if I was going to take the maple tree home. I asked him "what maple tree?". He said there was a maple tree in their outdoor area that I said I was going to take home. I told him he must have misunderstood me. He seemed agitated about it and said that he was glad I wasn't going to take it.
We had a nice lunch but he seems rather sluggish. When we got back to his room he laid back down on the bed and was dozing off in no time. I decided to come on home.
On my way out one of the wives asked me if I was coming tomorrow night. I had no idea what she was talking about. Seems there are some soldiers coming over from Ft Hood at 5PM to talk to the residents. I doubt if I will add that to my list for tomorrow. I don't like driving after dark (although it is much better since my surgery). I35 is bad enough during the daytime.
I took the dog for a long walk this afternoon. It is such a beautiful day.
Tomorrow I have a social committee meeting in the morning and a rehearsal for the band in the PM. On Tuesday I have a EMC committee meeting. Wednesday the housekeeper comes. I have to find time to buy a microwave. Mine is threatening to completely die any minute. That means the handyman will have a water softener and a microwave to install this next weekend.
I need a haircut. Friday the band plays at the home. There is just no end. Wish I could find a happy medium that allowed me to have more downtime.
He wanted to know if I was going to take the maple tree home. I asked him "what maple tree?". He said there was a maple tree in their outdoor area that I said I was going to take home. I told him he must have misunderstood me. He seemed agitated about it and said that he was glad I wasn't going to take it.
We had a nice lunch but he seems rather sluggish. When we got back to his room he laid back down on the bed and was dozing off in no time. I decided to come on home.
On my way out one of the wives asked me if I was coming tomorrow night. I had no idea what she was talking about. Seems there are some soldiers coming over from Ft Hood at 5PM to talk to the residents. I doubt if I will add that to my list for tomorrow. I don't like driving after dark (although it is much better since my surgery). I35 is bad enough during the daytime.
I took the dog for a long walk this afternoon. It is such a beautiful day.
Tomorrow I have a social committee meeting in the morning and a rehearsal for the band in the PM. On Tuesday I have a EMC committee meeting. Wednesday the housekeeper comes. I have to find time to buy a microwave. Mine is threatening to completely die any minute. That means the handyman will have a water softener and a microwave to install this next weekend.
I need a haircut. Friday the band plays at the home. There is just no end. Wish I could find a happy medium that allowed me to have more downtime.
Friday, November 8, 2013
Friday, November 8
Really busy week. When I got over to see Cowboy last Sunday he had a cold and was not feeling all that well. I talked to the nurse. There seems to be a bug going around. One of the problems of lots of people together. They are doing a chest x-ray and breathing treatments.
Monday I was a driver for a ladies luncheon in Austin. There were 11 of us. Nice lunch and lots of shopping for Christmas type goodies. I bought some dip mix, an ornament, a cute X-mas wine bottle stopper. I drooled over some other things but kept from going overboard.
Monday night was bunco. It is always fun and I love visiting with everybody.
Tuesday I went back to check on Cowboy. He seems a bit more chipper and energetic but still has a cold. He ate a good lunch and then we went back and he went to sleep.
I headed back and went to Sears and bought a new water softener. Over $500 ! I grew up with hard water and we used a lot of vinegar to cut the film, even when shampooing our hair. I thought for just a moment maybe I could return to that approach. But hard water is hard on the plumbing and your appliances, etc so guess will do what is necessary.
Wednesday it was pouring down rain and was a good day to stay in. I stayed in my pajamas all day. Didn't feel so great myself, had a headache, so mostly diddled around. Did do some laundry and clean the toilets, etc and did some cooking. It is nice to just diddle now and then.
Yesterday morning I took the car in for an oil change, tire rotation, etc. All is good. I then drove to the PX and ordered the prescription glasses the doc prescribed (even though I am doing great without glasses, will be interesting to see if it makes a difference.
Then I went to see Cowboy. He was doing a breathing treatment when I got there. The nurse said his X-ray was clear and he has no fever but is stuffy. She thinks maybe it is just allergies. I know I have been having a time with mold lately and fighting headaches and fatigue. Maybe one and the same.
This morning I went to the Emergency Management Committee meeting and presented a proposal from our task force. We got their blessing to go forward with a plan to document those persons with special needs in all our neighborhoods and a little money for start up.
Then off the play at an alzhiemers facility with the dulcimer group. Will follow this with a little shopping. About out of a few things. busy, busy, busy.......
Monday I was a driver for a ladies luncheon in Austin. There were 11 of us. Nice lunch and lots of shopping for Christmas type goodies. I bought some dip mix, an ornament, a cute X-mas wine bottle stopper. I drooled over some other things but kept from going overboard.
Monday night was bunco. It is always fun and I love visiting with everybody.
Tuesday I went back to check on Cowboy. He seems a bit more chipper and energetic but still has a cold. He ate a good lunch and then we went back and he went to sleep.
I headed back and went to Sears and bought a new water softener. Over $500 ! I grew up with hard water and we used a lot of vinegar to cut the film, even when shampooing our hair. I thought for just a moment maybe I could return to that approach. But hard water is hard on the plumbing and your appliances, etc so guess will do what is necessary.
Wednesday it was pouring down rain and was a good day to stay in. I stayed in my pajamas all day. Didn't feel so great myself, had a headache, so mostly diddled around. Did do some laundry and clean the toilets, etc and did some cooking. It is nice to just diddle now and then.
Yesterday morning I took the car in for an oil change, tire rotation, etc. All is good. I then drove to the PX and ordered the prescription glasses the doc prescribed (even though I am doing great without glasses, will be interesting to see if it makes a difference.
Then I went to see Cowboy. He was doing a breathing treatment when I got there. The nurse said his X-ray was clear and he has no fever but is stuffy. She thinks maybe it is just allergies. I know I have been having a time with mold lately and fighting headaches and fatigue. Maybe one and the same.
This morning I went to the Emergency Management Committee meeting and presented a proposal from our task force. We got their blessing to go forward with a plan to document those persons with special needs in all our neighborhoods and a little money for start up.
Then off the play at an alzhiemers facility with the dulcimer group. Will follow this with a little shopping. About out of a few things. busy, busy, busy.......
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Sunday, November 3
Saturday morning I was a volunteer for a drill of the Emergency Management Plan. I got to be an evacuee with injuries. The ham in me was on display. It was fun and the drills are very useful preparation.
Found myself running from that to dulcimer practice from 10 to noon.
In the afternoon my daughter and one of her sons was here. We went to lunch at TGI Fridays. I enjoyed it. Don't go to nice eating places as often as I used to.
When we returned my grandson helped me clean off the patio and the front entry with a hose. He then proceeded to knock down what we thought was a mud dabbers nest up on the roof of the porch. Turned out to be a bat! That bat was knocked pretty silly and fell down but none of us wanted to touch him. I had them push him over into the dirt thinking he would die. He didn't. That rascal literally crawled back to the wall on the porch and started trying to climb it.
I sent the Maserati home with my grandson. He and his family needed a second vehicle (his wife's car recently bit the dust), just had a baby and he recently lost his job. They are doing OK but this will help til things sort themselves out.
Now, what to do about that bat. I finally decided to get some help. I went to my neighbor across the street and ask him the best way to handle it. He said "wait here", took a mallet and a plastic bag and went to my house and disposed of the bat. He is such a sweet fellow, didn't even want me to have to watch the expiration of that critter.
Time changed last night so I was up earlier than usual and it really cold this morning. Enjoyed my paper, made a good breakfast and am now sitting here thinking I need to get cleaned up and dressed and head over to see Cowboy.
Found myself running from that to dulcimer practice from 10 to noon.
In the afternoon my daughter and one of her sons was here. We went to lunch at TGI Fridays. I enjoyed it. Don't go to nice eating places as often as I used to.
When we returned my grandson helped me clean off the patio and the front entry with a hose. He then proceeded to knock down what we thought was a mud dabbers nest up on the roof of the porch. Turned out to be a bat! That bat was knocked pretty silly and fell down but none of us wanted to touch him. I had them push him over into the dirt thinking he would die. He didn't. That rascal literally crawled back to the wall on the porch and started trying to climb it.
I sent the Maserati home with my grandson. He and his family needed a second vehicle (his wife's car recently bit the dust), just had a baby and he recently lost his job. They are doing OK but this will help til things sort themselves out.
Now, what to do about that bat. I finally decided to get some help. I went to my neighbor across the street and ask him the best way to handle it. He said "wait here", took a mallet and a plastic bag and went to my house and disposed of the bat. He is such a sweet fellow, didn't even want me to have to watch the expiration of that critter.
Time changed last night so I was up earlier than usual and it really cold this morning. Enjoyed my paper, made a good breakfast and am now sitting here thinking I need to get cleaned up and dressed and head over to see Cowboy.
Friday, November 1, 2013
Friday, November 1
Wow, it is November. Doesn't feel like it. Still too warm but has been a little cooler and drier. We had a terrible flood a few miles south of us the night before Halloween. So sad.
Got a lot done on Wednesday. Laundry, ironing, cleaning the bathrooms and kitchen. so much fun.
I went to see Cowboy yesterday. The rain quit about 9AM so headed North. The roads were dry and the skies were blue. Good drive. Took Cowboy out for a walk around the outside area. We went around 3 times ! Then sat for a while outside. This was followed by lunch. Fried chicken, brown beans, corn on the cob. I need to have a talk with their nutritionist. Sure doesn't seem like the best diet. But then, if you are 85 and have dementia, maybe this is one of those small pleasures.
Cowboy was in a good frame of mind. He enjoyed walking around and sitting outside and also enjoyed his lunch.
This morning I went to Home Depot and bought lightbulbs, filters, and some fluorescent bulbs. Have a handyman coming this evening to change out summer bulb in bathroom, replace a burned out bulb in the laundry room, fix a broken panel in the garage, change the batteries in the smoke detectors and the filters in the HVAC. Learned my water softener is not working so need to buy a new one. DRAT ! Am going to need a new microwave any day now as well. It is always something. What we need is a simpler time when we didn't need or use these things.
I went through my music and put together a binder for the Christmas gigs for the dulcimer group, a binder for the violin and piano gigs am doing and tidied up the band music. Will have to put together a binder for the Nov 15 gig at the VA home and one for the Christmas gigs soon. Three different sets of music for three different groups.
Got a lot done on Wednesday. Laundry, ironing, cleaning the bathrooms and kitchen. so much fun.
I went to see Cowboy yesterday. The rain quit about 9AM so headed North. The roads were dry and the skies were blue. Good drive. Took Cowboy out for a walk around the outside area. We went around 3 times ! Then sat for a while outside. This was followed by lunch. Fried chicken, brown beans, corn on the cob. I need to have a talk with their nutritionist. Sure doesn't seem like the best diet. But then, if you are 85 and have dementia, maybe this is one of those small pleasures.
Cowboy was in a good frame of mind. He enjoyed walking around and sitting outside and also enjoyed his lunch.
This morning I went to Home Depot and bought lightbulbs, filters, and some fluorescent bulbs. Have a handyman coming this evening to change out summer bulb in bathroom, replace a burned out bulb in the laundry room, fix a broken panel in the garage, change the batteries in the smoke detectors and the filters in the HVAC. Learned my water softener is not working so need to buy a new one. DRAT ! Am going to need a new microwave any day now as well. It is always something. What we need is a simpler time when we didn't need or use these things.
I went through my music and put together a binder for the Christmas gigs for the dulcimer group, a binder for the violin and piano gigs am doing and tidied up the band music. Will have to put together a binder for the Nov 15 gig at the VA home and one for the Christmas gigs soon. Three different sets of music for three different groups.
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Tuesday, October 29
The band played a gig this past Friday night for an Octoberfest party. It was the last one. Good thing. We were getting sick of so much oom pah pah type music.
The dulcimer group went over to the VA home yesterday and played for the guys in the memory unit in the morning and then for the rest of the home in the PM. We had a good audience and they really enjoyed it. Cowboy was really having fun. At one point he got up and went to the bathroom and he almost "danced" down the hall.
In between sets we had pizza and they let Cowboy come over and eat with us. I don't think he had pizza since going into the home, at least nothing this good. He really enjoyed it.
There were 12 of us, including 8 dulcimers, a bass fiddle, my fiddle, an accordion and our percussionist who plays everything from a drum to a triangle to a washboard to a tambourine. It is a challenge to pack up, drive there, take our own chairs, set up in a space not meant to hold that many people and keep things going. I am so grateful for the group and their willingness to do this. Before we had even finished our second set one of the staff was asking when we could come back.
The flowers are doing better and I now have hopes they will stay pretty through the fall. The guys really enjoy them as well.
this afternoon I am going to a dulcimer practice and a pot luck. Made some broccoli slaw to take. It will be good fellowship.
tomorrow I plan to do some housework and other chores around here. Will head back over to see Cowboy on Thursday.
The dulcimer group went over to the VA home yesterday and played for the guys in the memory unit in the morning and then for the rest of the home in the PM. We had a good audience and they really enjoyed it. Cowboy was really having fun. At one point he got up and went to the bathroom and he almost "danced" down the hall.
In between sets we had pizza and they let Cowboy come over and eat with us. I don't think he had pizza since going into the home, at least nothing this good. He really enjoyed it.
There were 12 of us, including 8 dulcimers, a bass fiddle, my fiddle, an accordion and our percussionist who plays everything from a drum to a triangle to a washboard to a tambourine. It is a challenge to pack up, drive there, take our own chairs, set up in a space not meant to hold that many people and keep things going. I am so grateful for the group and their willingness to do this. Before we had even finished our second set one of the staff was asking when we could come back.
The flowers are doing better and I now have hopes they will stay pretty through the fall. The guys really enjoy them as well.
this afternoon I am going to a dulcimer practice and a pot luck. Made some broccoli slaw to take. It will be good fellowship.
tomorrow I plan to do some housework and other chores around here. Will head back over to see Cowboy on Thursday.
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Thursday, October 24
Got up yesterday AM and went to Cedar Park Texas Veterans Commission again. Finally got everything done and turned in. Now we wait and wait.....and wait.............and wait. He told me that because of volume and sequestration it would be at least 2 years and probably longer before is processed. I asked what happens if Cowboy passes away before it is processed. He said the process is stopped and we file different forms and wait some more. Somebody really needs to fix this mess. We are not hurting because of the delays but I am confident there are many who are. Mercy.....
I came back and treated myself to a manicure and pedicure and some down time. I am better now.
Today I did laundry, filled up the cars, took a long walk, did some cooking. Anyone for salmon?
Also did some paperwork related to Emergency Management Committee. Had occasion to talk to the Chairman and I told her as soon as the current project is completed I am going to resign. Need to do less.
I am going to drop out of book club too. It isn't that I don't enjoy it but need to have fewer deadlines and stress. I want to read what I want to read and take however much time that takes. I am getting to where I only want to do what I really enjoy and not have so many committments.
Tomorrow morning I will be going over to see Cowboy. It is supposed to be a beautiful day around 80 and sunny. Will stay for lunch and participate in whatever they have going on.
Tomorrow night the band is doing another Octoberfest gig. Last one. Then we will start working on Christmas music. Also will be working with a neighbor who is a pianist preparing some music for the neighborhood Christmas party.
2014 is going to be a new chapter with fewer committments and more down time and time to read and be more relaxed with Cowboy and our time together.
Cowboy is amazing. Once the Dr. told him "You are one tough old bird". He is right. He is exceeding everyone's expectations. That doesn't mean he is not deteriorating. It just means it isn't happening near as quickly as is normally anticipated. I am grateful for the time with him. Even now he is affectionate a good part of the time and generally in a good humor. He just lives in a world that is hard to penetrate sometimes.
I came back and treated myself to a manicure and pedicure and some down time. I am better now.
Today I did laundry, filled up the cars, took a long walk, did some cooking. Anyone for salmon?
Also did some paperwork related to Emergency Management Committee. Had occasion to talk to the Chairman and I told her as soon as the current project is completed I am going to resign. Need to do less.
I am going to drop out of book club too. It isn't that I don't enjoy it but need to have fewer deadlines and stress. I want to read what I want to read and take however much time that takes. I am getting to where I only want to do what I really enjoy and not have so many committments.
Tomorrow morning I will be going over to see Cowboy. It is supposed to be a beautiful day around 80 and sunny. Will stay for lunch and participate in whatever they have going on.
Tomorrow night the band is doing another Octoberfest gig. Last one. Then we will start working on Christmas music. Also will be working with a neighbor who is a pianist preparing some music for the neighborhood Christmas party.
2014 is going to be a new chapter with fewer committments and more down time and time to read and be more relaxed with Cowboy and our time together.
Cowboy is amazing. Once the Dr. told him "You are one tough old bird". He is right. He is exceeding everyone's expectations. That doesn't mean he is not deteriorating. It just means it isn't happening near as quickly as is normally anticipated. I am grateful for the time with him. Even now he is affectionate a good part of the time and generally in a good humor. He just lives in a world that is hard to penetrate sometimes.
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Tuesday, October 22
I need to vent today. Yesterday I picked up the paperwork from the Dr. and headed to the Texas Veterans Commission in Cedar Park. I had not even opened the envelope but when got there and looked at it I discovered the Dr. had used my "sample" to show him what needed to be included to write it up and and sign. Well, the VA is not going to accept a form that has SAMPLE written across it. How did the Dr. miss that?
I took it back to the Dr. this morning and asked to talk to the nurse. She was too busy so the receptionist wrote down what I needed and then I left to go see Cowboy.
The morning was lovely and we enjoyed the weather for a bit and then went in for an "activity". They had a Karaoke set up and all the fellows were singing patriotic songs. Cowboy sang too and at one point had tears in his eyes. After that they put on old Cowboy songs and he continued singing his heart out. They had the words up on the big TV screen but I think he knew them all. Everything from Delta Dawn to the Gambler to Always on My Mind. Fun and rewarding for the patients.
Came back and had a message that the paperwork was ready so I went and picked it up and headed back to Cedar Park. I should have looked at it but I didn't and when I got there and opened it I found it still was not right. Back home and I called and made an appointment with the Dr. It wasn't 30 minutes until the nurse calls and wants to know what it was about. She said to bring the forms back down and they would fix them, no need for an appointment. Back I went and FINALLY got what I needed. When I asked the nurse how he got it wrong when I had left detailed info with the receptionist, she said "He probably didn't even look at the note". Between the VA and Dr. it has been a day. I was basically in tears at one point. It should not be this hard. It is 4:30 and I am worn out.
Supposed to go to practice tonight. With the concerts that are coming up, guess I better go. Good news is that I had a good lunch with Cowboy and can just fix a sandwich this evening.
I took it back to the Dr. this morning and asked to talk to the nurse. She was too busy so the receptionist wrote down what I needed and then I left to go see Cowboy.
The morning was lovely and we enjoyed the weather for a bit and then went in for an "activity". They had a Karaoke set up and all the fellows were singing patriotic songs. Cowboy sang too and at one point had tears in his eyes. After that they put on old Cowboy songs and he continued singing his heart out. They had the words up on the big TV screen but I think he knew them all. Everything from Delta Dawn to the Gambler to Always on My Mind. Fun and rewarding for the patients.
Came back and had a message that the paperwork was ready so I went and picked it up and headed back to Cedar Park. I should have looked at it but I didn't and when I got there and opened it I found it still was not right. Back home and I called and made an appointment with the Dr. It wasn't 30 minutes until the nurse calls and wants to know what it was about. She said to bring the forms back down and they would fix them, no need for an appointment. Back I went and FINALLY got what I needed. When I asked the nurse how he got it wrong when I had left detailed info with the receptionist, she said "He probably didn't even look at the note". Between the VA and Dr. it has been a day. I was basically in tears at one point. It should not be this hard. It is 4:30 and I am worn out.
Supposed to go to practice tonight. With the concerts that are coming up, guess I better go. Good news is that I had a good lunch with Cowboy and can just fix a sandwich this evening.
Monday, October 21, 2013
Monday, October 21
Attended a nice neighborhood coffee Friday morning. It was a nice time. I had to go back for seconds on the egg casserole. It was great and there was fresh fruit and coffee cake too.
I went to the dulcimer practice on Saturday and then did some shopping.
Sunday I went to see Cowboy. It was beautiful outside but a little cool. I had brought him a leather jacket and gloves and he put them on and then got too warm almost immediately. We sat in the sun outside for a good long while. He talked to the squirrels and got very into a little bird in the shrubbery. He seems to really notice little critters and get involved with them. We had lunch and then I headed back.
Last night the neighborhood threw an Octoberfest and we had bratwurt, kraut, beer and all the extras. The band got to eat first and then we played for about 45 minutes. It was a great time. We did really well and the people were clapping and singing and dancing.
Found out this morning that the Maserati needs a new battery and that is being done as we speak. I may have it sold. Will know this week.
Took a nice long walk. It is in the 70's and very nice today.
Got a call from the Dr. and the VA paperwork is done so am leaving and going to get it and then to Cedar Park to the Texas VA Commission to give it to my rep.
I went to the dulcimer practice on Saturday and then did some shopping.
Sunday I went to see Cowboy. It was beautiful outside but a little cool. I had brought him a leather jacket and gloves and he put them on and then got too warm almost immediately. We sat in the sun outside for a good long while. He talked to the squirrels and got very into a little bird in the shrubbery. He seems to really notice little critters and get involved with them. We had lunch and then I headed back.
Last night the neighborhood threw an Octoberfest and we had bratwurt, kraut, beer and all the extras. The band got to eat first and then we played for about 45 minutes. It was a great time. We did really well and the people were clapping and singing and dancing.
Found out this morning that the Maserati needs a new battery and that is being done as we speak. I may have it sold. Will know this week.
Took a nice long walk. It is in the 70's and very nice today.
Got a call from the Dr. and the VA paperwork is done so am leaving and going to get it and then to Cedar Park to the Texas VA Commission to give it to my rep.
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Thursday, September 17
It rained all day yesterday and that gave me a chance to dawdle in the house and relax. Had a pile of bills and correspondence so I attacked that. I had a letter from the VA wanting more documentation on the appeal we filed back in February so gathered all of that up. I also had another letter from them wanting to confirm how many dependents Cowboy had.
This morning I went to see the Texas Veterans Commission representative that I have been working with and we got the paperwork all lined out. Needed Cowboy's signature on some things. Even though I have a power of attorney and am the appointed fiduciary for his affairs the VA still wants his signature. They just have their own set of rules that defy understanding.
I drove up to see Cowboy. It was a beautiful day today and much cooler so we walked around outside and then sat outside for a good long while.
We went back to his room and I tried to explain that I needed him to sign some papers. He takes them and tries to read and understand them. I don't think even a PHD could understand why we are having to resubmit stuff that they already have. Actually, I am not sure that they didn't hire a monkey to create these forms. They in no way have anything that remotely relates to the case. Anyway, after staring at them for a good long while he asks more questions. It is a difficult exercise because he can't comprehend much of what I am saying.
He finally signs in all the right places and now I just need to get a form to the doctor and we will send it all in again. The Commission said to expect it to take 2 more years to hear anything.
I missed going to book club this morning but I had not finished the book so wouldn't have had much to contribute.
I bought a bicycle today from a neighbor for exercise. It is going to take a little while to get comfortable on it but should be good for me. and the weather is cooler and so I am actually willing to get out. I bought a "trike" once several years ago when I was having foot issues but I really didn't like riding it and ended up selling it.
Still sitting on the Mazerati. Went out to start it yesterday and the battery was dead. Next week when I have more time I will have to deal with that.
This morning I went to see the Texas Veterans Commission representative that I have been working with and we got the paperwork all lined out. Needed Cowboy's signature on some things. Even though I have a power of attorney and am the appointed fiduciary for his affairs the VA still wants his signature. They just have their own set of rules that defy understanding.
I drove up to see Cowboy. It was a beautiful day today and much cooler so we walked around outside and then sat outside for a good long while.
We went back to his room and I tried to explain that I needed him to sign some papers. He takes them and tries to read and understand them. I don't think even a PHD could understand why we are having to resubmit stuff that they already have. Actually, I am not sure that they didn't hire a monkey to create these forms. They in no way have anything that remotely relates to the case. Anyway, after staring at them for a good long while he asks more questions. It is a difficult exercise because he can't comprehend much of what I am saying.
He finally signs in all the right places and now I just need to get a form to the doctor and we will send it all in again. The Commission said to expect it to take 2 more years to hear anything.
I missed going to book club this morning but I had not finished the book so wouldn't have had much to contribute.
I bought a bicycle today from a neighbor for exercise. It is going to take a little while to get comfortable on it but should be good for me. and the weather is cooler and so I am actually willing to get out. I bought a "trike" once several years ago when I was having foot issues but I really didn't like riding it and ended up selling it.
Still sitting on the Mazerati. Went out to start it yesterday and the battery was dead. Next week when I have more time I will have to deal with that.
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Tuesday, October 15
I have been a bad girl this past week. Didn't realize had been so long since I posted. Last week was a "bear".
Monday, rehearsal and Bunco. Tuesday AM, neighborhood social committee planning meeting, PM Emergency Management meeting, followed by task force meeting with deliverables to work on. Wednesday, got house cleaned and then went to see Cowboy followed by a status meeting with staff at the home. Thursday, 2 Dr. appointments. Got cleared as done on eyes which is great, met with new dermatologist about rash and he prescribed a new prescription regimen. Pharmacy out and had to order. After two trips finally got medicine. Friday, got a haircut (she cut way too short this time !) and neighborhood luncheon followed by resting up for evening of performing for a neighborhood party. The party went well and we ate there. Home before 9.
I really am working on cutting down on my commitments and having more time to just chill.
On Saturday I went to rehearsal with the dulcimers. We are working on the program for the VA home on the 28th of this month. Sunday, went to see Cowboy and then on to see a new great grandchild in Dallas. Her name is Avri Dior and she weighed 7 lbs 15 oz at birth. Everyone is fine. My great grandaughter in law's Mom and Aunt were there so she has plenty of help for the moment. Lovely visit, terrible traffic going up and coming back on Monday. Rain, rain, rain.....
Today I went back to see Cowboy and took some replacement flowers which we planted. I told those folks that I am done. Either these take hold or we just give up and get some professional help. Don't get why we are not having more success.
Cowboy was in a really good place today. We went outside and walked around and then I went and got the flowers from the car and we planted them and "dead-headed" the flowers that we hope will make it through. May be the excessive heat. Learned today from the news that we had the highest temperature in the nation yesterday at 93 degrees. No wonder they are wilting. Cowboy seemed to enjoy himself but the knats were terrible and we didn't stay out long. The humidity is about 80 percent and it is warm today as well. A front coming in tonight that is supposed to bring in more rain and cooler temps. Was supposed to have a support group meeting this evening but cancelled due to weather. Wasn't unhappy about that. Ready to come home.
When we went back in, we watched part of an old Doris Day movie and then he wanted to go to his room. He laid down on the bed for a nap so I headed home.
I spent some time on the patio this afternoon after I got home. It is cooler and the new pergola is really nice. I moved all of my plants under the patio roof in hopes they will survive this crazy weather.
I may just sleep in tomorrow and listen to the rain come down. I am feeling melancholy, tired and out of sorts.
Monday, rehearsal and Bunco. Tuesday AM, neighborhood social committee planning meeting, PM Emergency Management meeting, followed by task force meeting with deliverables to work on. Wednesday, got house cleaned and then went to see Cowboy followed by a status meeting with staff at the home. Thursday, 2 Dr. appointments. Got cleared as done on eyes which is great, met with new dermatologist about rash and he prescribed a new prescription regimen. Pharmacy out and had to order. After two trips finally got medicine. Friday, got a haircut (she cut way too short this time !) and neighborhood luncheon followed by resting up for evening of performing for a neighborhood party. The party went well and we ate there. Home before 9.
I really am working on cutting down on my commitments and having more time to just chill.
On Saturday I went to rehearsal with the dulcimers. We are working on the program for the VA home on the 28th of this month. Sunday, went to see Cowboy and then on to see a new great grandchild in Dallas. Her name is Avri Dior and she weighed 7 lbs 15 oz at birth. Everyone is fine. My great grandaughter in law's Mom and Aunt were there so she has plenty of help for the moment. Lovely visit, terrible traffic going up and coming back on Monday. Rain, rain, rain.....
Today I went back to see Cowboy and took some replacement flowers which we planted. I told those folks that I am done. Either these take hold or we just give up and get some professional help. Don't get why we are not having more success.
Cowboy was in a really good place today. We went outside and walked around and then I went and got the flowers from the car and we planted them and "dead-headed" the flowers that we hope will make it through. May be the excessive heat. Learned today from the news that we had the highest temperature in the nation yesterday at 93 degrees. No wonder they are wilting. Cowboy seemed to enjoy himself but the knats were terrible and we didn't stay out long. The humidity is about 80 percent and it is warm today as well. A front coming in tonight that is supposed to bring in more rain and cooler temps. Was supposed to have a support group meeting this evening but cancelled due to weather. Wasn't unhappy about that. Ready to come home.
When we went back in, we watched part of an old Doris Day movie and then he wanted to go to his room. He laid down on the bed for a nap so I headed home.
I spent some time on the patio this afternoon after I got home. It is cooler and the new pergola is really nice. I moved all of my plants under the patio roof in hopes they will survive this crazy weather.
I may just sleep in tomorrow and listen to the rain come down. I am feeling melancholy, tired and out of sorts.
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Sunday, October 7
Waited all day Friday for the folks who are supposed to install the pergola. Got an email Friday morning that have been rescheduled for the 9th. Fourth time. Personnel and supply problems. If they don't keep their date this next time may ask for my money back.
On Saturday I went to see Cowboy. We went outside and discovered some of the mums are not doing well. I had a lot of "help". Maybe we didn't get the soil down around the roots good enough. May have to get a couple more. One of the residents was given a birthday party by his wife. They had a big table set up, ordered in fajitas and all the trimmings and a big cake. There were probably 12 or 15 relatives there for AC's party. It was really nice and quite a big deal. He is a really sweet fellow. He just turned 81. His wife is a regular participant at the home and comes almost every day for lunch. I really like her.
Cowboy enjoyed it and ate some of the Mexican food they brought and then turned around an hour later and ate a good bit of his regular lunch.
I decided that today would be a day for me. After I went early and got groceries I went to the mall and whiled away about 3 hours. This included a good long walk. I am trying again to cut back on my food and increase my activity. Maybe I can drop another 10 pounds. Didn't need a thing and mostly just browsed around. Did buy another pair of jammies. Will be getting cooler soon.
I have made a decision to reduce the number of commitments I make and try to spend more time just relaxing and taking walks, etc.
I have three gigs in October and one in November and the neighborhood Christmas party, then the dulcimer concert in January. After that I am going to take a break.
This week will be busy, practices, Dr. appts, meetings, etc. but the calendar looks much better after that.
On Saturday I went to see Cowboy. We went outside and discovered some of the mums are not doing well. I had a lot of "help". Maybe we didn't get the soil down around the roots good enough. May have to get a couple more. One of the residents was given a birthday party by his wife. They had a big table set up, ordered in fajitas and all the trimmings and a big cake. There were probably 12 or 15 relatives there for AC's party. It was really nice and quite a big deal. He is a really sweet fellow. He just turned 81. His wife is a regular participant at the home and comes almost every day for lunch. I really like her.
Cowboy enjoyed it and ate some of the Mexican food they brought and then turned around an hour later and ate a good bit of his regular lunch.
I decided that today would be a day for me. After I went early and got groceries I went to the mall and whiled away about 3 hours. This included a good long walk. I am trying again to cut back on my food and increase my activity. Maybe I can drop another 10 pounds. Didn't need a thing and mostly just browsed around. Did buy another pair of jammies. Will be getting cooler soon.
I have made a decision to reduce the number of commitments I make and try to spend more time just relaxing and taking walks, etc.
I have three gigs in October and one in November and the neighborhood Christmas party, then the dulcimer concert in January. After that I am going to take a break.
This week will be busy, practices, Dr. appts, meetings, etc. but the calendar looks much better after that.
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Thursday, October 3
Met with the music selection committee for the dulcimer group yesterday AM and we picked the tunes we will be doing for our concert in January. There's more to it than you might think. Have to consider who is committed, who is not, how to seat everyone, what we need to work on, etc. Good meeting.
The HVAC people came in the afternoon and checked out the heating system. Will have to start using it occasionally pretty soon. All good.
Had another potential buyer for the car come by about 4:30. He was kind of interested but didn't like my price. Sent me a note this morning and said to let him know if it didn't sell and I was willing to go lower. We will see. I am in no hurry.
Went to see Cowboy this morning. Took him another pair of glasses. Never have found the missing pair. We sat outside almost the whole visit. It was a lovely morning. I was going to go to the PX after my visit with him and order him another pair of glasses and then make a run to the commissary for a few items. On the way, I was listening to the radio and the base commander was talking about the government shutdown and how it affected them. The PX and commissary are closed. Now, why didn't I realize that?? Guess we will have to wait. Still hoping to find his good pair.
After we had sat outside for a while he said he needed to go to the bathroom so we headed back to his room. By the time we got there he had forgotten that and I had to remind him to go. First time that has
happened.
I got to thinking about something I said Monday in my post about going out and having a hard life. I regret saying that. It is not what I meant. I am so grateful to the friends who occasionally ask me to do something. A friend asks me to go to the symphony. Another friend says let's go have dinner. I am so thankful I have these people in my life. It helps keep me going and adds some pleasant times to savor. This is a good environment for someone in my situation because there are people around you who look after you and care about you and include you. Bless you all.
The HVAC people came in the afternoon and checked out the heating system. Will have to start using it occasionally pretty soon. All good.
Had another potential buyer for the car come by about 4:30. He was kind of interested but didn't like my price. Sent me a note this morning and said to let him know if it didn't sell and I was willing to go lower. We will see. I am in no hurry.
Went to see Cowboy this morning. Took him another pair of glasses. Never have found the missing pair. We sat outside almost the whole visit. It was a lovely morning. I was going to go to the PX after my visit with him and order him another pair of glasses and then make a run to the commissary for a few items. On the way, I was listening to the radio and the base commander was talking about the government shutdown and how it affected them. The PX and commissary are closed. Now, why didn't I realize that?? Guess we will have to wait. Still hoping to find his good pair.
After we had sat outside for a while he said he needed to go to the bathroom so we headed back to his room. By the time we got there he had forgotten that and I had to remind him to go. First time that has
happened.
I got to thinking about something I said Monday in my post about going out and having a hard life. I regret saying that. It is not what I meant. I am so grateful to the friends who occasionally ask me to do something. A friend asks me to go to the symphony. Another friend says let's go have dinner. I am so thankful I have these people in my life. It helps keep me going and adds some pleasant times to savor. This is a good environment for someone in my situation because there are people around you who look after you and care about you and include you. Bless you all.
Monday, September 30, 2013
Monday, September 30
A shutdown of the government looms. Be interesting to see what happens. I am basically totally sick of the whole mess. Try to not to dwell on it.
On Friday I worked our community flu clinic. We served 400 plus people. I just handed out forms, explained process, answered questions, etc. Went well and is considered a success.
Friday night I went to the symphony in Austin with a neighbor. We ate at an Italian restaurant prior and it was wonderful. I ate too much !! The concert was also wonderful Nice evening but was up til after midnight by the time I got home, wound down, etc.
Dulcimer practice took up Saturday morning and then I managed to goof off most of the day. A friend called about 5 and we went out and had a drink and dinner. (I have such a tough life). One of our band members was playing a gig with some guys and we cheered him on.
I went to see Cowboy on Sunday. There is a fellow there who constantly picks up dead leaves, weeds and trash and for the longest he put it in a plastic bag. Seems he has started putting it in the flower beds. I took Cowboy outside. It was a beautiful day and he immediately wanted to clean the trash out of the newly planted flower bed. I found a trash bag and we cleaned it up.
In a little bit the fellow comes out and realizes what we have done and he is just glowering at us. I was wondering if we were going to have a confrontation. He sits outside and plays his indian flute a lot and that is what he started doing. After awhile he starts picking up leaves again and deposits them in the flower bed. He then goes inside which was a good thing because now Cowboy is intent on going out and cleaning up the bed again. We may have a mini-war on our hands.
I brought the activities aide back home with me and we spent some time going through a pile of books that I wanted to see if be appropriate for these guys to look at. He was looking for specific subjects, like cats, or dogs or horses. We found some big coffee table books that he liked. Also took a couple of motorcycles and one on guns as well as some on western history. I told him I understood it best not to bring thoughts about that sort of thing into their thinking. He is going to talk to the head lady and get an opinion. Glad he was willing to look at things. It took him two and half loads of a laundry basket to get it all to the car. and he is young and strong.
While he was here he wanted to look at the Maserati and he seems a little bit interested. We couldn't get the hood up. The latch was stuck. That wasn't good. Another possible buyer but everything is just "nibbles" so far.
I got up this morning and spent time in the yard tidying up and dead heading some things. It is another beautiful day. Trying really hard to slow it down a bit and try to relax.
Got a call from the Dr. on Friday. The biopsy was back and everything is fine. They can't tell me what caused the rash but very well may be stress. Am using a Dr. recommended med and we will see if it starts going away. Go back to the Dr. on the 10th. I am going to have to reexamine how I am spending my time and try to simplify things.
On Friday I worked our community flu clinic. We served 400 plus people. I just handed out forms, explained process, answered questions, etc. Went well and is considered a success.
Friday night I went to the symphony in Austin with a neighbor. We ate at an Italian restaurant prior and it was wonderful. I ate too much !! The concert was also wonderful Nice evening but was up til after midnight by the time I got home, wound down, etc.
Dulcimer practice took up Saturday morning and then I managed to goof off most of the day. A friend called about 5 and we went out and had a drink and dinner. (I have such a tough life). One of our band members was playing a gig with some guys and we cheered him on.
I went to see Cowboy on Sunday. There is a fellow there who constantly picks up dead leaves, weeds and trash and for the longest he put it in a plastic bag. Seems he has started putting it in the flower beds. I took Cowboy outside. It was a beautiful day and he immediately wanted to clean the trash out of the newly planted flower bed. I found a trash bag and we cleaned it up.
In a little bit the fellow comes out and realizes what we have done and he is just glowering at us. I was wondering if we were going to have a confrontation. He sits outside and plays his indian flute a lot and that is what he started doing. After awhile he starts picking up leaves again and deposits them in the flower bed. He then goes inside which was a good thing because now Cowboy is intent on going out and cleaning up the bed again. We may have a mini-war on our hands.
I brought the activities aide back home with me and we spent some time going through a pile of books that I wanted to see if be appropriate for these guys to look at. He was looking for specific subjects, like cats, or dogs or horses. We found some big coffee table books that he liked. Also took a couple of motorcycles and one on guns as well as some on western history. I told him I understood it best not to bring thoughts about that sort of thing into their thinking. He is going to talk to the head lady and get an opinion. Glad he was willing to look at things. It took him two and half loads of a laundry basket to get it all to the car. and he is young and strong.
While he was here he wanted to look at the Maserati and he seems a little bit interested. We couldn't get the hood up. The latch was stuck. That wasn't good. Another possible buyer but everything is just "nibbles" so far.
I got up this morning and spent time in the yard tidying up and dead heading some things. It is another beautiful day. Trying really hard to slow it down a bit and try to relax.
Got a call from the Dr. on Friday. The biopsy was back and everything is fine. They can't tell me what caused the rash but very well may be stress. Am using a Dr. recommended med and we will see if it starts going away. Go back to the Dr. on the 10th. I am going to have to reexamine how I am spending my time and try to simplify things.
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Thursday, September 26
I took the flowers over this past Sunday and set them in the beds. Went back on Tuesday and spent almost all day with some help from the activities aide, Cowboy, one of the wives and had lots of bystanders. Filled one raised bed with yellow mums, one with burgundy mums and one with a variety of greens like coleus, ivy, etc. A few of the marigolds are still with us and we pulled out everything that was about gone. It looks absolutely wonderful and everyone is very pleased with our project.
Next project I am going through a bunch of books that have lots of pictures for their bookcase. When I started going through them I found I have books I have not even opened in 30 years. I love books but it is time to weed it out.
Wednesday I washed my car, filled it up, got a pedicure, went to the grocery store and then came home and didn't do anything the rest of the day.
Back to the home today. It was an absolutely beautiful day with a light breeze and by 10AM practically everyone of the residents thatcan get around by any means were sitting on the patio. They brought juice and vanilla wafers for them Lovely relaxed morning. Cowboy walked around the area about 5 times. He is doing much better handling the walker and not shuffling his feet.
When I got there this morning he was in his room and I asked him what he was doing. He said they were almost finished with the painting. I asked "What painting?". He said, "My helmet". Had to be referring to a motorcyle helmet.
When we went outside he kept pointing to this same mum and telling me it had already grown a lot bigger. That isn't the case but he was so pleased we just agree and go on.
I will helping with the flu clinic in the morning, herding the folks through the lines from 8 to 11. Tomorrow night a friend and I are going to the symphony in Austin.
Next project I am going through a bunch of books that have lots of pictures for their bookcase. When I started going through them I found I have books I have not even opened in 30 years. I love books but it is time to weed it out.
Wednesday I washed my car, filled it up, got a pedicure, went to the grocery store and then came home and didn't do anything the rest of the day.
Back to the home today. It was an absolutely beautiful day with a light breeze and by 10AM practically everyone of the residents thatcan get around by any means were sitting on the patio. They brought juice and vanilla wafers for them Lovely relaxed morning. Cowboy walked around the area about 5 times. He is doing much better handling the walker and not shuffling his feet.
When I got there this morning he was in his room and I asked him what he was doing. He said they were almost finished with the painting. I asked "What painting?". He said, "My helmet". Had to be referring to a motorcyle helmet.
When we went outside he kept pointing to this same mum and telling me it had already grown a lot bigger. That isn't the case but he was so pleased we just agree and go on.
I will helping with the flu clinic in the morning, herding the folks through the lines from 8 to 11. Tomorrow night a friend and I are going to the symphony in Austin.
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Saturday, September 21
They tell me it will be fall tomorrow. Doesn't feel like it. Still pretty hot. I am tired of hot weather and ready for orange and golden leaves and a cool breeze. Oh wait, this is central Texas. Isn't going to happen.
Wednesday I got a haircut, filled up the car (hate that), and went to the dermatologist. Can't recall if I mentioned it, though I think I did, I have a rash on my arms and legs. Been there for months. Won't go away. I have tried EVERYTHING !!
I got my first full body skin exam. Seems there are all sorts of interesting things on my skin. I have several places that have little cysts that have "calcified", a discolored place on my leg called "granulor annulare" or something like that. And of course, pimples. No one 69 years old should have to deal with pimples ! However, she doesn't know what the rash is so is doing a biopsy. Also removed a mole that is getting bigger. Interesting visit. Will know results of biopsy in two weeks.
I hosted Book Club at my house on Thursday. I had selected "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings". I thought they would like it but hardly anyone did. Well, I did. Had a good discussion and I always enjoy the ladies and visiting.
Thursday afternoon one of the fellows from the dulcimer group came over and helped me load 15 folding chairs into my car for tomorrow's dulcimer concerts at the home. Everyone is so nice and helpful around here. It is great.
I ordered five large pizzas to feed us because turns out the kitchen at the home is short stafffed and can't feed us. Didn't find that out til Thursday AM.
A neighbor from across the street came over and said one of the painters doing his house is interested in the Maserati. He is going to come look at it next week. cool. Have had an ad on Craigslist and have had some inquiries but no serious bites.
I then watched the evening news and learned that we might have 5 inches of rain on Friday and flooding, etc. Got a call from our leader and we agreed it was best to cancel. Got a call from my friendly helper and he came back and emptied my car. Called the pizza place and cancelled the pizzas. Geez. What a day.
One of the nice things about a rainy day and all your plans are cancelled. You can do whatever you want (as long as you don't have to go outside). It just poured all day and sometimes the TV was out because of the rain. I ended up working on my rather out of control closet. Pulled out stuff I don't need or want or can't wear and filled 4 shopping bags (big shopping bags) with all of it. It will go to a local charity.
We had dulcimer practice this morning and I went. Then I went and bought mums to plant at the home. They are all in my car. Will take them over tomorrow. I think the aide is supposed to be there part of the day so he can help me unload. Maybe we can get them in the ground when I go back Tuesday.
Wednesday I got a haircut, filled up the car (hate that), and went to the dermatologist. Can't recall if I mentioned it, though I think I did, I have a rash on my arms and legs. Been there for months. Won't go away. I have tried EVERYTHING !!
I got my first full body skin exam. Seems there are all sorts of interesting things on my skin. I have several places that have little cysts that have "calcified", a discolored place on my leg called "granulor annulare" or something like that. And of course, pimples. No one 69 years old should have to deal with pimples ! However, she doesn't know what the rash is so is doing a biopsy. Also removed a mole that is getting bigger. Interesting visit. Will know results of biopsy in two weeks.
I hosted Book Club at my house on Thursday. I had selected "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings". I thought they would like it but hardly anyone did. Well, I did. Had a good discussion and I always enjoy the ladies and visiting.
Thursday afternoon one of the fellows from the dulcimer group came over and helped me load 15 folding chairs into my car for tomorrow's dulcimer concerts at the home. Everyone is so nice and helpful around here. It is great.
I ordered five large pizzas to feed us because turns out the kitchen at the home is short stafffed and can't feed us. Didn't find that out til Thursday AM.
A neighbor from across the street came over and said one of the painters doing his house is interested in the Maserati. He is going to come look at it next week. cool. Have had an ad on Craigslist and have had some inquiries but no serious bites.
I then watched the evening news and learned that we might have 5 inches of rain on Friday and flooding, etc. Got a call from our leader and we agreed it was best to cancel. Got a call from my friendly helper and he came back and emptied my car. Called the pizza place and cancelled the pizzas. Geez. What a day.
One of the nice things about a rainy day and all your plans are cancelled. You can do whatever you want (as long as you don't have to go outside). It just poured all day and sometimes the TV was out because of the rain. I ended up working on my rather out of control closet. Pulled out stuff I don't need or want or can't wear and filled 4 shopping bags (big shopping bags) with all of it. It will go to a local charity.
We had dulcimer practice this morning and I went. Then I went and bought mums to plant at the home. They are all in my car. Will take them over tomorrow. I think the aide is supposed to be there part of the day so he can help me unload. Maybe we can get them in the ground when I go back Tuesday.
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Tuesday, September 17
I have really been "chasing my tail" for several days now.
On Saturday we had dulcimer practice and I tried to get laundry done in the PM. On Sunday we played at the library from 2 to 4. I had gone at 1 because I wanted to be sure they had things set up (they did) and to look at the sculpture exhibit that was going on. I needed some browsing and contemplating time and it did the trick. The concert went well.
I dashed home, loaded up my cart that I use for music gigs with the punch ingredients, changed clothes, took my medicine (eye drops) and then found I could not load the cart. It was too heavy. Finally rounded up my friendly neighbor across the street and got it loaded and got to the park in time to make the punch and then man the name tag table for the party. It was a fun time. The food was wonderful, I ate too much and was completely beat when I got home.
Monday I did some shopping for such interesting things as shampoo, etc., went and used a 25% off coupon at Beall's to buy a couple of things and then went to band practice.
Today I went to the home and helped the program aide set up bowling for the patients and then helped him corral the fellows and play. It consisted of a mat with arrows, a metal framed doo dad to place the ball and then everyone got to "bowl". I use the term loosely. The ball was rubber, the pins were plastic and if you managed to keep the metal frame in place everyone got a great score. The guys just loved it. Even Cowboy got into it and then was telling others how to do it. He just has to be the one who teaches, instructs and orders around, even now.
Went to support group at 5PM. Each of us was asked to describe how we managed right after our spouse was put in the home and how we felt. It was interesting how many of the women were just flat scared to death to be alone. We heard tales of children getting them guns, how to use bug spray instead, how to ignore funny sounds in the middle of the night. I am sitting there thinking that I was never scared, I gave the kids his guns a long time ago and that I am sleeping better than I did when he was at home because I am not half awake listening for him to do something.
The facilitator talked about how we should take time to meditate, take it easy and enjoy not having the burden of caring for our loved one. I was thinking about how I dived right in to about a dozen projects immediately and found it very therapeutic.
On the way home I was thinking that I may be a bit atypical. I am grateful that I am not dealing with some of the things some of these ladies are.
On Saturday we had dulcimer practice and I tried to get laundry done in the PM. On Sunday we played at the library from 2 to 4. I had gone at 1 because I wanted to be sure they had things set up (they did) and to look at the sculpture exhibit that was going on. I needed some browsing and contemplating time and it did the trick. The concert went well.
I dashed home, loaded up my cart that I use for music gigs with the punch ingredients, changed clothes, took my medicine (eye drops) and then found I could not load the cart. It was too heavy. Finally rounded up my friendly neighbor across the street and got it loaded and got to the park in time to make the punch and then man the name tag table for the party. It was a fun time. The food was wonderful, I ate too much and was completely beat when I got home.
Monday I did some shopping for such interesting things as shampoo, etc., went and used a 25% off coupon at Beall's to buy a couple of things and then went to band practice.
Today I went to the home and helped the program aide set up bowling for the patients and then helped him corral the fellows and play. It consisted of a mat with arrows, a metal framed doo dad to place the ball and then everyone got to "bowl". I use the term loosely. The ball was rubber, the pins were plastic and if you managed to keep the metal frame in place everyone got a great score. The guys just loved it. Even Cowboy got into it and then was telling others how to do it. He just has to be the one who teaches, instructs and orders around, even now.
Went to support group at 5PM. Each of us was asked to describe how we managed right after our spouse was put in the home and how we felt. It was interesting how many of the women were just flat scared to death to be alone. We heard tales of children getting them guns, how to use bug spray instead, how to ignore funny sounds in the middle of the night. I am sitting there thinking that I was never scared, I gave the kids his guns a long time ago and that I am sleeping better than I did when he was at home because I am not half awake listening for him to do something.
The facilitator talked about how we should take time to meditate, take it easy and enjoy not having the burden of caring for our loved one. I was thinking about how I dived right in to about a dozen projects immediately and found it very therapeutic.
On the way home I was thinking that I may be a bit atypical. I am grateful that I am not dealing with some of the things some of these ladies are.
Friday, September 13, 2013
Friday, September 13
Anybody notice today was Friday the 13th. I am not a superstitious person but boy was today a doozy.
I went to see Cowboy this morning. There is a fellow named Archie who came over to him and tried to take his walker away. Cowboy just went ballistic. He yelled and jerked it away and caused quite a commotion. It took two staff folks to solve the issue and get Archie to go elsewhere and sit down for lunch.
Cowboy was really cranky and even was cranky with me which doesn't happen often. Doesn't make for a good day. We had catfish for lunch which is about his favorite meal in the world and that helped a lot.
I had plans to host my two sisters at my house in October and was so looking forward to it. We haven't been together for six years, although I have seen them separately. Originally there were six girls but we are down to three. It is time to make a connection. Found out today that my older sister has roof problems. This has been going on for a while but bottom line she has a 55 gallon barrel in her living room catching water from the unusually heavy rain they have been having and won't be able to leave for a while til she gets it all resolved. I am very disappointed but understand her situation. Hopefully we can get together later in the fall.
My eyes are doing great and I can see very well, even without reading glasses. It takes about a month before they decide exactly where you stand but right now I am feeling really optimistic.
Have a dulcimer practice tomorrow and a concert at the library on Sunday followed by a neighborhood Luau Sunday night so am going to be busy for a couple of days. Have to make the punch. It involved buying 6 cans of orange juice, 6 cans of pineapple juice, 6 cans of lime juice, a bunch of ginger ale and orange soda. Seems like should make enough for an army and I am just trying to make enough for 90 people. Hope we haven't overestimated tooooooo much.
Feeling pretty good but a bit tired. Have to finish my book for this month's book club by next Thursday. We are reading "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings" by Maya Angelou. Very good book but I have a ways to go. and this month is at my house, so am going to have to tidy up before Thursday. Think I will turn in and read for a spell
I wrote this without glasses. I am going to really like the freedom of not depending on "specs" all the time, although I will still need sunglasses and sometimes reading glasses. Can't wear anything on my face for seven days and I am one of those folks that just looks washed out without a bit of makeup but we will get through it.
How did I ever find time to work for a living?
I went to see Cowboy this morning. There is a fellow named Archie who came over to him and tried to take his walker away. Cowboy just went ballistic. He yelled and jerked it away and caused quite a commotion. It took two staff folks to solve the issue and get Archie to go elsewhere and sit down for lunch.
Cowboy was really cranky and even was cranky with me which doesn't happen often. Doesn't make for a good day. We had catfish for lunch which is about his favorite meal in the world and that helped a lot.
I had plans to host my two sisters at my house in October and was so looking forward to it. We haven't been together for six years, although I have seen them separately. Originally there were six girls but we are down to three. It is time to make a connection. Found out today that my older sister has roof problems. This has been going on for a while but bottom line she has a 55 gallon barrel in her living room catching water from the unusually heavy rain they have been having and won't be able to leave for a while til she gets it all resolved. I am very disappointed but understand her situation. Hopefully we can get together later in the fall.
My eyes are doing great and I can see very well, even without reading glasses. It takes about a month before they decide exactly where you stand but right now I am feeling really optimistic.
Have a dulcimer practice tomorrow and a concert at the library on Sunday followed by a neighborhood Luau Sunday night so am going to be busy for a couple of days. Have to make the punch. It involved buying 6 cans of orange juice, 6 cans of pineapple juice, 6 cans of lime juice, a bunch of ginger ale and orange soda. Seems like should make enough for an army and I am just trying to make enough for 90 people. Hope we haven't overestimated tooooooo much.
Feeling pretty good but a bit tired. Have to finish my book for this month's book club by next Thursday. We are reading "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings" by Maya Angelou. Very good book but I have a ways to go. and this month is at my house, so am going to have to tidy up before Thursday. Think I will turn in and read for a spell
I wrote this without glasses. I am going to really like the freedom of not depending on "specs" all the time, although I will still need sunglasses and sometimes reading glasses. Can't wear anything on my face for seven days and I am one of those folks that just looks washed out without a bit of makeup but we will get through it.
How did I ever find time to work for a living?
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Wednesday, September 11
Surgery went well. My left eye is feeling very itchy and achy, maybe more than the other one but am following directions and putting drops in, etc. It was late today, after 4 when we got home, so no nap. Think it is early to bed for me. Too soon to know how much improvement in the vision in my left eye but have high hopes. Back in the morning for a follow up and I am done ! yea ! On to the next thing.
There was a luncheon on Friday that got cancelled so will probably go see Cowboy again on Friday.
Things are a little behind around here. Need to tidy up, but I guess it will keep.
There was a luncheon on Friday that got cancelled so will probably go see Cowboy again on Friday.
Things are a little behind around here. Need to tidy up, but I guess it will keep.
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Tuesday, September 10
Spent Sunday with Cowboy. Nice day so got out and walked. He went around the walkway 4 times. Usually has only done one or two. There were a lot of visitors there and we had a nice visit on the veranda with some other families.
Yesterday I was a bit busy. Had a social committee meeting in the AM. the neighborhood is having a Luau this coming Sunday evening and there is a committee of about 8 people that are going to do all the cooking, setting up, entertaining, etc. Big job. We have 90 people coming. I will be making the punch. I have to play at the library Sunday afternoon so that is about all I will have time for. Will man the name tag table at the party.
Our band played at the downtown Methodist Church in the afternoon. They have a day care program for dementia folks called "PALS". Good time was had by all. We played a lot of western songs and the fellows really liked that.
Bunco in the evening. I was to pick up three ladies and it was raining. I got to the site of Bunco and realized I had not picked up the third one! Sometimes I worry about my own brain.
This morning I went to see Cowboy for a couple of hours but had to come back for a 1PM Emergency Management Committee meeting. Headed there momentarily. He had therapy at 11 so it worked out just right.
A lovely neighbor is picking me up tomorrow for my surgery. Hope it goes as well as the first one.
Yesterday I was a bit busy. Had a social committee meeting in the AM. the neighborhood is having a Luau this coming Sunday evening and there is a committee of about 8 people that are going to do all the cooking, setting up, entertaining, etc. Big job. We have 90 people coming. I will be making the punch. I have to play at the library Sunday afternoon so that is about all I will have time for. Will man the name tag table at the party.
Our band played at the downtown Methodist Church in the afternoon. They have a day care program for dementia folks called "PALS". Good time was had by all. We played a lot of western songs and the fellows really liked that.
Bunco in the evening. I was to pick up three ladies and it was raining. I got to the site of Bunco and realized I had not picked up the third one! Sometimes I worry about my own brain.
This morning I went to see Cowboy for a couple of hours but had to come back for a 1PM Emergency Management Committee meeting. Headed there momentarily. He had therapy at 11 so it worked out just right.
A lovely neighbor is picking me up tomorrow for my surgery. Hope it goes as well as the first one.
Friday, September 6, 2013
Friday, September 6
It's been a busy week. I went to the orthopedist on Tuesday and got an injection to relieve the pain in my hand and arm. I was a bit numb after so stayed home the rest of the day and rested. They said to allow two weeks for full effect. I felt better on Wednesday and a bit better since but still have some discomfort.
I went to see Cowboy on Wednesday and had lunch with him. He has really benefited from the physical therapy. They are trying to get him to use the walker correctly so he won't take so many falls. So far, so good.
My daughter arrived Wed evening and we went to the city on Thursday for my laser cataract surgery. They were running late. Was supposed to get in at 8:15 and it was almost 9. A bit nerve wracking. About 11 we were done and headed home. My daughter and I stopped at IHOP and had breakfast. Had not been there since Cowboy went to the home. Enjoyed a good breakfast and then home and long nap. My eye was a bit painful and the drops stung a bit but by late Wednesday was doing pretty well so we went out to eat. I had not had a good restaurant meal in a while and it was great. Had cocktails, an appetizer and fried shrimp and baked potato. When we got home I went to bed and slept all night with nary a problem.
When I got up this morning I could see really well and only needed my reading glasses for the morning paper. I had a couple of cups of tea and my daughter cooked me a nice breakfast. At 10:30 we left to go for my follow up. The doc told me I could drive and anything else I wanted to do but not to lift anything heavy and keep up the drops. All is good. Go back next week on Wednesday for the other eye. I am writing this entry without glasses !! Everything is brighter and clearer and I don't think I had realized how much my vision had been compromised.
After that we drove to see Cowboy and my daughter had a chance to visit with him. He was in a good humor and very "present". We had a nice, although short, visit. Will be going back on Sunday to spend some time with him.
I had made arrangements to meet someone about the car at 4 so came back and barely made it in time. Turned out to be an older fellow who was looking for something to tinker with. I got the distinct impression his wife was not big on him spending money on something like this. No sale. No biggy. Someone will come along.
I went to see Cowboy on Wednesday and had lunch with him. He has really benefited from the physical therapy. They are trying to get him to use the walker correctly so he won't take so many falls. So far, so good.
My daughter arrived Wed evening and we went to the city on Thursday for my laser cataract surgery. They were running late. Was supposed to get in at 8:15 and it was almost 9. A bit nerve wracking. About 11 we were done and headed home. My daughter and I stopped at IHOP and had breakfast. Had not been there since Cowboy went to the home. Enjoyed a good breakfast and then home and long nap. My eye was a bit painful and the drops stung a bit but by late Wednesday was doing pretty well so we went out to eat. I had not had a good restaurant meal in a while and it was great. Had cocktails, an appetizer and fried shrimp and baked potato. When we got home I went to bed and slept all night with nary a problem.
When I got up this morning I could see really well and only needed my reading glasses for the morning paper. I had a couple of cups of tea and my daughter cooked me a nice breakfast. At 10:30 we left to go for my follow up. The doc told me I could drive and anything else I wanted to do but not to lift anything heavy and keep up the drops. All is good. Go back next week on Wednesday for the other eye. I am writing this entry without glasses !! Everything is brighter and clearer and I don't think I had realized how much my vision had been compromised.
After that we drove to see Cowboy and my daughter had a chance to visit with him. He was in a good humor and very "present". We had a nice, although short, visit. Will be going back on Sunday to spend some time with him.
I had made arrangements to meet someone about the car at 4 so came back and barely made it in time. Turned out to be an older fellow who was looking for something to tinker with. I got the distinct impression his wife was not big on him spending money on something like this. No sale. No biggy. Someone will come along.
Monday, September 2, 2013
Monday, September 2
I got up yesterday AM and went to see Cowboy. He was doing well. He knew who I was and was in a good humor. We went outside and walked around a bit. It is really steamy so it was a short walk. He is doing better with his walker. I think maybe the therapy is doing some good.
I stayed and had lunch with him. Visited with some of the ladies who were visiting their hubbies. I see the same ones all the time. Every now and then I will see someone I don't know. There are a fair number of these fellows that no one ever visits.
This one fellow in a wheel chair that is always telling me I am "sweet" came over to our table yesterday and sat there for the longest trying to engage in conversation. He kept telling me how "pretty" I am. He never has any visitors so I try to love on him a little and talk to him. He is speech impaired so can be hard to converse but he loves to hold your hand and try.
I got up today and took the car to get it washed. It had been awhile. Long line. Must be because people are off for the holiday. I came back and took pictures of the Maserati for posting. Will have lunch and then go to band practice.
Can't wear makeup starting today until a week after surgery. Given that my face is broken out a bit I hate that but it is a good precaution. If I could just stay in that would be good but too much going on.
I stayed and had lunch with him. Visited with some of the ladies who were visiting their hubbies. I see the same ones all the time. Every now and then I will see someone I don't know. There are a fair number of these fellows that no one ever visits.
This one fellow in a wheel chair that is always telling me I am "sweet" came over to our table yesterday and sat there for the longest trying to engage in conversation. He kept telling me how "pretty" I am. He never has any visitors so I try to love on him a little and talk to him. He is speech impaired so can be hard to converse but he loves to hold your hand and try.
I got up today and took the car to get it washed. It had been awhile. Long line. Must be because people are off for the holiday. I came back and took pictures of the Maserati for posting. Will have lunch and then go to band practice.
Can't wear makeup starting today until a week after surgery. Given that my face is broken out a bit I hate that but it is a good precaution. If I could just stay in that would be good but too much going on.
Saturday, August 31, 2013
Saturday, August 31
I is hard to believe it is almost September. Wow, how time does fly.
I took my "bucket of bolts" (the Maserati) down to get an estimate on the body work yesterday. They want $8000 for a complete fix and repaint. Wow, who knew? Even just fixing the tire well is almost $1000. I am not going to do that. Will just sell it as is. What I have learned from this little venture is that old cars are a whole 'nother world that is best left to the experts and those folks who are really into having an old car. It is kind of amusing but I don't even have the strength to take the top off to turn it into a convertible. This is just not going to work out for me.
The guys at the body shop were really keen on looking her over and commenting on how rare this auto is but that doesn't put any money in my pocket. Am going to sell her as soon as get my home work done and can put a price to it.
I went to see Cowboy yesterday after I was through at the body shop. He was in therapy when I got there so I waited about half an hour before he returned. I talked to the therapist and am told he did really well. They are trying to improve his mobility so he won't keep falling. Sounds like a good thing to me. They are using some tools like new programs available on XBOX and that sort of thing. They tell me he really seems to enjoy it. I want to come next time and watch. Sounds interesting.
We had lunch and visited a bit. He had been outside earlier. The flowers look pretty sad. They just don't like this 100 degree heat any more than I do. As soon as it cools down we will pull them out and put in some mums for fall.
Cowboy ate a good lunch but seemed tired so I just stayed a little while after and then headed home.
I went to dulcimer practice this morning. We have a couple of gigs in September and then will start working on our big annual concert which will be the end of January.
This week will be a busy one for me. I have an appointment on Tuesday to get an injection, in hopes of reducing the pain in my hand and arm. Am hoping it will help. I get so tired of hurting all the time.
On Thursday I have cataract surgery. My daughter is coming from Dallas to drive me and will stay overnight and make sure I do OK and can drive, etc come Saturday. I am having a laser procedure that is a newer approach that doesn't involve any cutting. They are going to remove the cataract and do lasik to improve my vision in my right eye. May be able to eliminate my glasses but no guarantees. My vision is pretty bad/
If all goes well will do the left eye the following week.
Will go see Cowboy again tomorrow. Have a band practice on Monday, an injection onTuesday, back to see Cowboy on Wednesday and then eye surgery on Thursday.
I took my "bucket of bolts" (the Maserati) down to get an estimate on the body work yesterday. They want $8000 for a complete fix and repaint. Wow, who knew? Even just fixing the tire well is almost $1000. I am not going to do that. Will just sell it as is. What I have learned from this little venture is that old cars are a whole 'nother world that is best left to the experts and those folks who are really into having an old car. It is kind of amusing but I don't even have the strength to take the top off to turn it into a convertible. This is just not going to work out for me.
The guys at the body shop were really keen on looking her over and commenting on how rare this auto is but that doesn't put any money in my pocket. Am going to sell her as soon as get my home work done and can put a price to it.
I went to see Cowboy yesterday after I was through at the body shop. He was in therapy when I got there so I waited about half an hour before he returned. I talked to the therapist and am told he did really well. They are trying to improve his mobility so he won't keep falling. Sounds like a good thing to me. They are using some tools like new programs available on XBOX and that sort of thing. They tell me he really seems to enjoy it. I want to come next time and watch. Sounds interesting.
We had lunch and visited a bit. He had been outside earlier. The flowers look pretty sad. They just don't like this 100 degree heat any more than I do. As soon as it cools down we will pull them out and put in some mums for fall.
Cowboy ate a good lunch but seemed tired so I just stayed a little while after and then headed home.
I went to dulcimer practice this morning. We have a couple of gigs in September and then will start working on our big annual concert which will be the end of January.
This week will be a busy one for me. I have an appointment on Tuesday to get an injection, in hopes of reducing the pain in my hand and arm. Am hoping it will help. I get so tired of hurting all the time.
On Thursday I have cataract surgery. My daughter is coming from Dallas to drive me and will stay overnight and make sure I do OK and can drive, etc come Saturday. I am having a laser procedure that is a newer approach that doesn't involve any cutting. They are going to remove the cataract and do lasik to improve my vision in my right eye. May be able to eliminate my glasses but no guarantees. My vision is pretty bad/
If all goes well will do the left eye the following week.
Will go see Cowboy again tomorrow. Have a band practice on Monday, an injection onTuesday, back to see Cowboy on Wednesday and then eye surgery on Thursday.
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Tuesday, August 27
I finally started to feel a bit caught up and "normal" yesterday. Spent the morning going to the post office, the drug store, the music store, the Office Depot (got to take advantage of those $10 off cards when I need ink for the printer) and the grocery store.
In the afternoon a couple of friends and I went to see "The Butler". It was a wonderful movie, amazing cast and a good story. I found myself thinking about things that I experienced in the 50's and 60's that were long forgotten. I even had a bag of popcorn and a soda. A rare treat that is decidedly not good for me.
I went to see Cowboy today. They were giving everyone a haircut and we put Cowboy's name on the list and then waited our turn. It was a bit of a circus because they had been without a barber for a spell and everyone needed a trim. Cowboy got impatient and couldn't understand why he wasn't next. He tended to be the senior person back in his army days and I think he wanted to still have that status. Nope, just have to wait your turn.
Good lunch. When we went back to Cowboy's room I asked him for his teeth and cleaned his dentures for him and put them to soak. I continue to be dissastisfied with the care of his teeth. We talked a little bit and then I headed home. Ran into heavy rain but the closer I got to home the less rain there was. On the news tonight, learned we had very little here where we live.
I go to see an opthamologist tomorrow about the cataract surgery. Need to make a decision about this new procedure.
I went out to the patio tonight and watered everything real well and sat outside for a while. It was fairly cool and pleasant. Still haven't had dinner. The lunches are so generous at the home, am not very hungry. Guess I will make a sandwich.
In the afternoon a couple of friends and I went to see "The Butler". It was a wonderful movie, amazing cast and a good story. I found myself thinking about things that I experienced in the 50's and 60's that were long forgotten. I even had a bag of popcorn and a soda. A rare treat that is decidedly not good for me.
I went to see Cowboy today. They were giving everyone a haircut and we put Cowboy's name on the list and then waited our turn. It was a bit of a circus because they had been without a barber for a spell and everyone needed a trim. Cowboy got impatient and couldn't understand why he wasn't next. He tended to be the senior person back in his army days and I think he wanted to still have that status. Nope, just have to wait your turn.
Good lunch. When we went back to Cowboy's room I asked him for his teeth and cleaned his dentures for him and put them to soak. I continue to be dissastisfied with the care of his teeth. We talked a little bit and then I headed home. Ran into heavy rain but the closer I got to home the less rain there was. On the news tonight, learned we had very little here where we live.
I go to see an opthamologist tomorrow about the cataract surgery. Need to make a decision about this new procedure.
I went out to the patio tonight and watered everything real well and sat outside for a while. It was fairly cool and pleasant. Still haven't had dinner. The lunches are so generous at the home, am not very hungry. Guess I will make a sandwich.
Saturday, August 24, 2013
Saturday, August 24
It has been nearly three weeks since I posted. How do I ever remember everything I wish to say.
I tried repeatedly to get online while out of town and kept getting a really weird error message. I guess Blogger just didn't like my trying to post from a different computer.
First, news about Cowboy. I went to see him on Wednesday and again today. Both times he was in good spirits and very much "present". He continues to eat well, sleep well and is not in any pain (other than the usual old age aches and pains, of course).
I talked to him about every third day while gone. The first time, he asked the home to call me so he could talk to me. He got on the phone and proceeded to tell me I needed to find this dog, get the number out of his mouth and get it to the police so they could get it "to the right people". None of it made any sense at all. I just tried to humor him and assure him I would take care of it. He was a bit agitated.
I called him a couple of days later and he talked to me like he knew who I was and then a couple of minutes later he talked like I was someone else altogether. He was really concerned that I was in North Carolina, he had no way to reach me and he needed to know if I needed anything. He also told me he had troops in South Carolina on a training mission and he couldn't contact them and didn't know if they had everything they needed. He complained about not being able to get to them.
On another occasion he was concerned because he was trying to train some people to use the "SOS System" and they were not getting it. He seemed frustrated and concerned.
The staff told me he was confused a good deal of the time lately but otherwise was doing fine.
I had a really nice trip, for the most part. The airlines ran on time, no problems with the bus that took us to NYC. The weather in upstate New York was in the 80's during the day and in the 60's at night. Very pleasant. My daughter and I did a number of things. We took a day and made a "wine tour" along Seneca Lake. Had a nice lunch and saw a lot of beautiful scenery. On two occasions while I was there her daughter and her daughter's son came to visit and we celebrated his birthday. On another day we went to her husband's parents home, where all of his family was gathered, for a cookout and to celebrate a nephew's birthday. They are a lovely and close knit family. They have all lived close to one another for generations.
We spent quite a few hours picking and snapping green beans on the deck and picking tomatoes, onions and cucumbers. This was followed by a full day of putting up pickles. It provided some good mother daughter time.
We went to New York City for four days. We went to the 9/11 Memorial, up to the top of the Empire State Building, out to see the Statue of Liberty, went to see the Blue Man Group, ate hot dogs from the street vendors (terrible hot dogs!) got lost in the subway system, also had a couple of nice meals. On Sunday we took a horse drawn carriage ride in Central Park and then went to the zoo. It was a beautiful day. My daughter's oldest son and his daughter joined us for part of the time we were in the city and then they joined his girlfriend for a couple more days after we left. I would have liked to make a Broadway show but thinking back, I was too tired at the end of the day to do that so best we didn't get tickets. It was hot and humid in the city and we returned to the hotel each afternoon soaked in sweat and exhausted from all the walking.
I would say the city is like no other place. Big, noisy, dirty and crowded and yet ts has a feel that is stimulating and fascinating. You hear all kinds of languages spoken on the street. Some of the people you meet up with are kind and courteous but a large number of them are rude, in too much of a hurry and generally unpleasant. I don't think I could live in such a place.
Chinatown and Little Italy were a big disappointment. My daughter loves to shop and loves a bargain, but there was nothing there but a bunch of cheap junk. Knock off handbags, bejeweled cell phone covers and T-shirts. Not at all like in Vancouver or Seattle. Maybe they have changed and are now the same. It has been about 12 years since I was on the west coast.
The hotel was very nice, right across the street from the Bus terminal which made it easy to manage our bags and get settled, etc. and to leave the city when our visit was done.
We have a plan to do it again next year and hit the museums, the overhead walkway, a Broadway show and spend more time at Macy's (it is 9 stories and a full block of shopping, what's not to like?). We may even build in an opportunity to go to Atlantic City, although that is a ways down the coast.
I tried repeatedly to get online while out of town and kept getting a really weird error message. I guess Blogger just didn't like my trying to post from a different computer.
First, news about Cowboy. I went to see him on Wednesday and again today. Both times he was in good spirits and very much "present". He continues to eat well, sleep well and is not in any pain (other than the usual old age aches and pains, of course).
I talked to him about every third day while gone. The first time, he asked the home to call me so he could talk to me. He got on the phone and proceeded to tell me I needed to find this dog, get the number out of his mouth and get it to the police so they could get it "to the right people". None of it made any sense at all. I just tried to humor him and assure him I would take care of it. He was a bit agitated.
I called him a couple of days later and he talked to me like he knew who I was and then a couple of minutes later he talked like I was someone else altogether. He was really concerned that I was in North Carolina, he had no way to reach me and he needed to know if I needed anything. He also told me he had troops in South Carolina on a training mission and he couldn't contact them and didn't know if they had everything they needed. He complained about not being able to get to them.
On another occasion he was concerned because he was trying to train some people to use the "SOS System" and they were not getting it. He seemed frustrated and concerned.
The staff told me he was confused a good deal of the time lately but otherwise was doing fine.
I had a really nice trip, for the most part. The airlines ran on time, no problems with the bus that took us to NYC. The weather in upstate New York was in the 80's during the day and in the 60's at night. Very pleasant. My daughter and I did a number of things. We took a day and made a "wine tour" along Seneca Lake. Had a nice lunch and saw a lot of beautiful scenery. On two occasions while I was there her daughter and her daughter's son came to visit and we celebrated his birthday. On another day we went to her husband's parents home, where all of his family was gathered, for a cookout and to celebrate a nephew's birthday. They are a lovely and close knit family. They have all lived close to one another for generations.
We spent quite a few hours picking and snapping green beans on the deck and picking tomatoes, onions and cucumbers. This was followed by a full day of putting up pickles. It provided some good mother daughter time.
We went to New York City for four days. We went to the 9/11 Memorial, up to the top of the Empire State Building, out to see the Statue of Liberty, went to see the Blue Man Group, ate hot dogs from the street vendors (terrible hot dogs!) got lost in the subway system, also had a couple of nice meals. On Sunday we took a horse drawn carriage ride in Central Park and then went to the zoo. It was a beautiful day. My daughter's oldest son and his daughter joined us for part of the time we were in the city and then they joined his girlfriend for a couple more days after we left. I would have liked to make a Broadway show but thinking back, I was too tired at the end of the day to do that so best we didn't get tickets. It was hot and humid in the city and we returned to the hotel each afternoon soaked in sweat and exhausted from all the walking.
I would say the city is like no other place. Big, noisy, dirty and crowded and yet ts has a feel that is stimulating and fascinating. You hear all kinds of languages spoken on the street. Some of the people you meet up with are kind and courteous but a large number of them are rude, in too much of a hurry and generally unpleasant. I don't think I could live in such a place.
Chinatown and Little Italy were a big disappointment. My daughter loves to shop and loves a bargain, but there was nothing there but a bunch of cheap junk. Knock off handbags, bejeweled cell phone covers and T-shirts. Not at all like in Vancouver or Seattle. Maybe they have changed and are now the same. It has been about 12 years since I was on the west coast.
The hotel was very nice, right across the street from the Bus terminal which made it easy to manage our bags and get settled, etc. and to leave the city when our visit was done.
We have a plan to do it again next year and hit the museums, the overhead walkway, a Broadway show and spend more time at Macy's (it is 9 stories and a full block of shopping, what's not to like?). We may even build in an opportunity to go to Atlantic City, although that is a ways down the coast.
Sunday, August 4, 2013
Sunday, August 4
Well, the bills are paid, my bags are packed (well, almost) and the house is clean. Did all the laundry and will have clean sheets and a clean house when I get back. Love that. Now I just have to remember to turn up the thermostat, lock the doors, etc. Don't actually leave til Tuesday but have the band over tomorrow so kind of pretending this was my last day to prepare.
I am looking forward to the trip. It is a little scary being so far from Cowboy but I can get home in a few hours if I have to. We have plans to go to New York City for four days and already have some tickets and such. Then back at my daughters she has arranged for us to take a wine and antiques tour. She also says I am going to help her can. We'll see. It is so hot here and will be a lot cooler there so I might actually enjoy getting out in the garden.
I went to see Cowboy yesterday. He was watching TV and he immediately started in about how he was helping this fifteen year old girl who was overweight to lose weight. Said he was going to lose some too. He had to plan the meals and get her to exercise, etc. He just talked and talked which is quite unusual. He must be inserting himself into what he is seeing on TV. Not a mention of the bizarre telephone call that we had on Thursday.
I got him to go outside with me and walk a little and we deadheaded some flowers and pulled up some weeds. When he is doing that he is very into it and knows just what to do.
Cowboy mentioned the other day that they had moved him to another building. I think I know where that came from. They are in the process of redecorating the common area and have some new things on the walls. That is the only thing I can think of.
They are replacing some of the flooring and repainting their wing. There are a couple of pieces of new furniture in there. One is a writing table and the other a bookcase. I don't know what purpose they will serve. Will see.
I talked to the staff and let them know I would be out of town and made sure they noted it and also that they would call me if anything happens. They would anyway but I feel better having reenforced it with them.
Probably won't be on line much while I am gone but will try to post a time or two.
I am looking forward to the trip. It is a little scary being so far from Cowboy but I can get home in a few hours if I have to. We have plans to go to New York City for four days and already have some tickets and such. Then back at my daughters she has arranged for us to take a wine and antiques tour. She also says I am going to help her can. We'll see. It is so hot here and will be a lot cooler there so I might actually enjoy getting out in the garden.
I went to see Cowboy yesterday. He was watching TV and he immediately started in about how he was helping this fifteen year old girl who was overweight to lose weight. Said he was going to lose some too. He had to plan the meals and get her to exercise, etc. He just talked and talked which is quite unusual. He must be inserting himself into what he is seeing on TV. Not a mention of the bizarre telephone call that we had on Thursday.
I got him to go outside with me and walk a little and we deadheaded some flowers and pulled up some weeds. When he is doing that he is very into it and knows just what to do.
Cowboy mentioned the other day that they had moved him to another building. I think I know where that came from. They are in the process of redecorating the common area and have some new things on the walls. That is the only thing I can think of.
They are replacing some of the flooring and repainting their wing. There are a couple of pieces of new furniture in there. One is a writing table and the other a bookcase. I don't know what purpose they will serve. Will see.
I talked to the staff and let them know I would be out of town and made sure they noted it and also that they would call me if anything happens. They would anyway but I feel better having reenforced it with them.
Probably won't be on line much while I am gone but will try to post a time or two.
Friday, August 2, 2013
Friday, August 2
On Wednesday I went and had a pedicure. Was way behind schedule but it felt nice. One of my neighbors recently broke her leg and is now moving to an assisted living facility near family. We had a nice luncheon for her today. Got to see lots of lovely neighbor ladies.
On Thursday I went to see Cowboy. He still thought I was his sister, LaRaine. He needed to use the bathroom and completely missed the stool and left a puddle on the floor. He also had changed his clothes once that morning before I arrived and was told he had taken a tumble. Probably while trying to change clothes. His natural need for complete independence is still there. I had eaten a late breakfast on the way over so just sat with him when he had his lunch.
I spent today getting a haircut, having the house cleaned and meeting with a couple of ladies about a project we are working on for the Emergency Committee.
This afternoon the phone rang. He asked for LaRaine. It was Cowboy. He was more or less incoherent. The aides had dialed the number at his insistance. He told me that there was a dog with a number in his mouth. I needed to get the number and report it to the police so they could give the information to the "right people". Made absolutely no sense. I talked to him awhile and tried to humor him. After a few minutes he calmed down and we agreed he would give me all the information when I visited tomorrow.
He also told me he had "moved". They are doing some remodeling at the facility and maybe it has something to do with that. I assured him I would find him when I came tomorrow.
I am thinking we had reached a new lower level of his "normal". I knew it was coming but it is still hard.
On Thursday I went to see Cowboy. He still thought I was his sister, LaRaine. He needed to use the bathroom and completely missed the stool and left a puddle on the floor. He also had changed his clothes once that morning before I arrived and was told he had taken a tumble. Probably while trying to change clothes. His natural need for complete independence is still there. I had eaten a late breakfast on the way over so just sat with him when he had his lunch.
I spent today getting a haircut, having the house cleaned and meeting with a couple of ladies about a project we are working on for the Emergency Committee.
This afternoon the phone rang. He asked for LaRaine. It was Cowboy. He was more or less incoherent. The aides had dialed the number at his insistance. He told me that there was a dog with a number in his mouth. I needed to get the number and report it to the police so they could give the information to the "right people". Made absolutely no sense. I talked to him awhile and tried to humor him. After a few minutes he calmed down and we agreed he would give me all the information when I visited tomorrow.
He also told me he had "moved". They are doing some remodeling at the facility and maybe it has something to do with that. I assured him I would find him when I came tomorrow.
I am thinking we had reached a new lower level of his "normal". I knew it was coming but it is still hard.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Tuesday, July 30
I think Sunday was only the second time I have gone to the movies by myself. The last time was shortly after I retired and I walked out of it. terrible. I went to see "The Heat" Sunday and it was really funny although a bit "raunchy". I needed some laughs. Bought a medium diet coke and a medium popcorn and it was almost $9.00 ! plus it was way more than I needed. Nonetheless, it was a good enough experience that I will probably do it again.
I did some errands yesterday and feel like my desk is not quite so crowded with things to do. Then I went to buy a few things for the trip. I realized when I did laundry this past weekend that my underwear might not pass "muster" at my daughter's so bought some. Found a cute jacket and some capris to take on the trip as well. Some mornings will probably be a little cool.
Today was hard. I got up and got ready and went to see Cowboy. He was asleep when I got there. The staff told me he had a very restless night. I watched him sleep for about an hour and then woke him up and insisted he get up and out. He didn't want to and wouldn't consider going outside although it was pretty nice this morning. I decided to try to get him to walk around inside the unit and he agreed to that.
When he started out of his room he was very unsteady. He kept moving his walker forward and then backward like it wasn't working right. He did this over and over again all the way around (the long way) to his table. Seemed like he thought it wasn't working right but it was working just fine. It took a very long time from his room to the dining table. He was very non-communicative at lunch, although he did eat fairly well. After he ate his spaghetti and garlic bread he refused his vegetables and then ate his cake. He kept dropping it in his lap and then trying to pick it up with his fork. Hard to watch.
We went back to his room after lunch and I asked him if he knew who I was. He said yes and when I asked him who he said "LaRaine". She is his sister who he has not seen in several years.
I have been told many times that the changes don't occur gradually so much as all at once and that seems to be the case. He was definitely not the same today and seemed very different.
I almost broke down coming home today. Such a beautiful, smart engaging man reduced to someone who I don't even know. Not unexpected but hard just the same.
I have had three "drinks" this afternoon. Really should try to get a handle on myself.
I did some errands yesterday and feel like my desk is not quite so crowded with things to do. Then I went to buy a few things for the trip. I realized when I did laundry this past weekend that my underwear might not pass "muster" at my daughter's so bought some. Found a cute jacket and some capris to take on the trip as well. Some mornings will probably be a little cool.
Today was hard. I got up and got ready and went to see Cowboy. He was asleep when I got there. The staff told me he had a very restless night. I watched him sleep for about an hour and then woke him up and insisted he get up and out. He didn't want to and wouldn't consider going outside although it was pretty nice this morning. I decided to try to get him to walk around inside the unit and he agreed to that.
When he started out of his room he was very unsteady. He kept moving his walker forward and then backward like it wasn't working right. He did this over and over again all the way around (the long way) to his table. Seemed like he thought it wasn't working right but it was working just fine. It took a very long time from his room to the dining table. He was very non-communicative at lunch, although he did eat fairly well. After he ate his spaghetti and garlic bread he refused his vegetables and then ate his cake. He kept dropping it in his lap and then trying to pick it up with his fork. Hard to watch.
We went back to his room after lunch and I asked him if he knew who I was. He said yes and when I asked him who he said "LaRaine". She is his sister who he has not seen in several years.
I have been told many times that the changes don't occur gradually so much as all at once and that seems to be the case. He was definitely not the same today and seemed very different.
I almost broke down coming home today. Such a beautiful, smart engaging man reduced to someone who I don't even know. Not unexpected but hard just the same.
I have had three "drinks" this afternoon. Really should try to get a handle on myself.
Sunday, July 28, 2013
Sunday, July 28
On Thursday I took a banjo player that lives in our neighborhood and his wife with me and went to the home. He had a good audience as well. These guys really seem to benefit from music. There was one fellow that was once a square dance caller and he was trying to call on some of the tunes. There was another resident that tapped his foot the whole time and another that clapped enthusiastically after every song. We are going to do this again !
Had to go for a follow up mammogram on Friday morning. Was way late calling me. Took the whole morning. The Dr. came in after checking the film and said the spot in my breast is not any bigger than last time and doesn't think it is anything to worry about. Have to go back in six months so they can keep an eye on it.
I went back to the home on Saturday. Had lunch with Cowboy and we watched an old black and white movie. He wouldn't let me have his dentures for me to check them. Generally he was "somewhere else" today.
I stopped back by the mall to take a walk. It is hard to find time when it is cool enough right now. Topping 100 most days. Got in about 20 minutes and then got distracted shopping. Found some really comfy walking shorts and a pretty dressy blouse which will be good for my upcoming trip.
I got up this morning and took a ride on the bicycle. I feel very unsure and unsteady but it was better today than last week. Nice and cloudy and relatively cool.
Today I am doing laundry, changed the bed, enjoying the paper and starting to gather up some things so I can be sure I have what I need for the trip. I have more clothes than anybody ought to own but everything is quite casual. We just don't dress up around here.
I have decided to go take in a movie. The last time I was at the movies in a theatre was for True Grit. Must have been 3 years ago or more. Feeling antsy, need to get out. I need a few groceries so can stop by WalMart after the movie and be home way before dark.
Had to go for a follow up mammogram on Friday morning. Was way late calling me. Took the whole morning. The Dr. came in after checking the film and said the spot in my breast is not any bigger than last time and doesn't think it is anything to worry about. Have to go back in six months so they can keep an eye on it.
I went back to the home on Saturday. Had lunch with Cowboy and we watched an old black and white movie. He wouldn't let me have his dentures for me to check them. Generally he was "somewhere else" today.
I stopped back by the mall to take a walk. It is hard to find time when it is cool enough right now. Topping 100 most days. Got in about 20 minutes and then got distracted shopping. Found some really comfy walking shorts and a pretty dressy blouse which will be good for my upcoming trip.
I got up this morning and took a ride on the bicycle. I feel very unsure and unsteady but it was better today than last week. Nice and cloudy and relatively cool.
Today I am doing laundry, changed the bed, enjoying the paper and starting to gather up some things so I can be sure I have what I need for the trip. I have more clothes than anybody ought to own but everything is quite casual. We just don't dress up around here.
I have decided to go take in a movie. The last time I was at the movies in a theatre was for True Grit. Must have been 3 years ago or more. Feeling antsy, need to get out. I need a few groceries so can stop by WalMart after the movie and be home way before dark.
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Wednesday, July 24
My youngest daughter's oldest son came with his family on Saturday. We had a nice visit. I thought he was going to take my electronic piano home with him but he decided it was too heavy for him to get up the stairs at his house and he chose not to take it home. No biggy. Maybe later. I also asked him to help me take the top off the Maserati. Unfortunately, it takes two strong people and I am not one so we had to abandon that as well. Will have to get some help at some point.
We had a nice visit. We went out to eat Saturday evening and then "Grandma" went to bed and they stayed up a bit. I gave them my king size and the master bedroom so was less comfortable than usual on the fold out in the front room but did OK. His wife is 8 months pregnant so felt like it was the right thing to do. Had a bit of a "crick" in my neck come Sunday morning. I made them a big breakfast and by the time we did that, had showers, etc. it was time to get on the road.
We went over to see Cowboy and they spent about two hours visiting with him. He knew my grandson who he has been very close to since he was born but didn't recognize his wife and children. He seemed to really enjoy that we came to see him.
On Monday I drove to Austin with the other band members to our keyboard players house and practiced for a couple of hours. Very nice practice. Got to see her new house and the plans she has for the yard.
On Tuesday, I went to Austin to meet with an opthomologist who does laser cataract surgery and also lasik. I learned that I am eligible for Medicare for the surgery on both eyes. One of my eyes is basically useless so he suggested we do the one that we can do some good for. He is telling me that this procedure will leave me not needing glasses for distance but only reading glasses for reading and such. Sounds wonderful; however, since I only have one good eye it is a risk. Also, Medicare does not cover this new laser procedure so would cost thousands. Am thinking about it. Am going to have to have cataract surgery in any event but could go the traditional route.
Today I went to see Cowboy and a friend and I played for him and the entire memory unit group. They seemed to really enjoy it. We did some old 40's and 50's tunes. I also took Cowboy a new remote control. Am working on some way to keep it where it can't disappear like the other one. Maybe some type of pocket off his chair or something. Will be working on that.
I am rather tired tonight. Watched some of American's Got Talent but have grown a bit bored with it. Going to bed with a good book.
We had a nice visit. We went out to eat Saturday evening and then "Grandma" went to bed and they stayed up a bit. I gave them my king size and the master bedroom so was less comfortable than usual on the fold out in the front room but did OK. His wife is 8 months pregnant so felt like it was the right thing to do. Had a bit of a "crick" in my neck come Sunday morning. I made them a big breakfast and by the time we did that, had showers, etc. it was time to get on the road.
We went over to see Cowboy and they spent about two hours visiting with him. He knew my grandson who he has been very close to since he was born but didn't recognize his wife and children. He seemed to really enjoy that we came to see him.
On Monday I drove to Austin with the other band members to our keyboard players house and practiced for a couple of hours. Very nice practice. Got to see her new house and the plans she has for the yard.
On Tuesday, I went to Austin to meet with an opthomologist who does laser cataract surgery and also lasik. I learned that I am eligible for Medicare for the surgery on both eyes. One of my eyes is basically useless so he suggested we do the one that we can do some good for. He is telling me that this procedure will leave me not needing glasses for distance but only reading glasses for reading and such. Sounds wonderful; however, since I only have one good eye it is a risk. Also, Medicare does not cover this new laser procedure so would cost thousands. Am thinking about it. Am going to have to have cataract surgery in any event but could go the traditional route.
Today I went to see Cowboy and a friend and I played for him and the entire memory unit group. They seemed to really enjoy it. We did some old 40's and 50's tunes. I also took Cowboy a new remote control. Am working on some way to keep it where it can't disappear like the other one. Maybe some type of pocket off his chair or something. Will be working on that.
I am rather tired tonight. Watched some of American's Got Talent but have grown a bit bored with it. Going to bed with a good book.
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